I'm a great problem solver. Give me enough time, and I can find the solution to anything you care to name. I can always find the answer. There always is an answer, no matter what the problem.
...And that, Good People, is precisely my problem!
See, when I was a witness, there was always an answer for everything too. The answer was in the Bible, if it wasn't then the answer was close to a famous bridge in Brooklyn.
Since I left the JW's, and become a pillar of the community (Ha!), I still can find a solution to every problem that life throws at me. Because, if I can't find an answer, then maybe the witnesses will crow at my indecision because they have an answer for everything.
As I'm getting older, I'm gradually realising that having to have an answer for everything can be pretty exhausting, so I'm trying to let go of this particular need. Matter of fact, I'm also starting to realise that life has a great habit of solving it's own problems without my assistance, in fact, virtually everything that I have ever worried about in my life has sorted itself out without any assistance from me whatsoever.
Just thought you might like to know that.
Englishman.