Social gathering on December 25th

by StarTrekAngel 6 Replies latest watchtower beliefs

  • StarTrekAngel
    StarTrekAngel

    I remember clearly the many times that in the past they have insisted on not showing their faces out in the street on this day. Well, not really. I am exaggerating. But I mean they've always insisted on being out and about very early on Christmas day... preaching.

    Most elders in my congregation believed this was the best time to preach since most people were celebrating a religious holiday. They thought it was the perfect ice breaker. I can not recall one single outing in which an interested party was found. As I used to tell my wife "Its a bad idea to be out in service on December 25th early morning. The only thing we will achieve is piss off drunk people"

    However, I do recall the "lectures" on how having a social gathering on December 25th was frowned upon. Most brothers and sisters saw it as an opportunity to get everyone together, since no one had anything better to do and besides, most people did not work that day. The elders and the "society" in the other hand, always pointed out that our neighbors may get the wrong idea. As if we are celebrating Christmas as a group.

    Apparently our congo has reconsidered. The elders themselves were out and about inviting us all to a gathering to be had on the 25th right after the meeting. Needless to say we did not go to the gathering or the meeting for that matter.

    I can not help to think that they have seen this idea of keeping up appearances has failed. Most neighbors won't even bother to notice that there is a feast next door and most brothers and sisters would spent December 25th with their non-JW relatives otherwise. Then excuse themselves off as "we are just spending time with family. We did not hang the decorations, they did". Social media has probably exposed most of them and so the elders probably figure is better to give them another place to be on that day. Do this for a couple of years and then prepare a talk in which you scold those who prefer worldly company over spiritual company and guilt trip them.

  • scratchme1010
    scratchme1010

    I can not help to think that they have seen this idea of keeping up appearances has failed. Most neighbors won't even bother to notice that there is a feast next door and most brothers and sisters would spent December 25th with their non-JW relatives otherwise. Then excuse themselves off as "we are just spending time with family. We did not hang the decorations, they did". Social media has probably exposed most of them and so the elders probably figure is better to give them another place to be on that day. Do this for a couple of years and then prepare a talk in which you scold those who prefer worldly company over spiritual company and guilt trip them.

    That's actually one of my most traumatic experiences as a JW child. I had to go house to house seeing all my classmates having fun with their new toys. Such loving thing to do to a child (I'm being sarcastic, just in case).

  • LongHairGal
    LongHairGal

    STARTREKANGEL:

    I remember back in the day when it was Christmas or Thanksgiving the "friends" were nowhere to be found. And they weren't all out in service either.

    I was single and didn't have a whole lot of friends in the religion. It was a very desolate feeling. I guess Jehovah was only pleased if I was looking at four walls alone. This was needless pain I was putting myself through since I had non-JW family in the area and I could have been enjoying a good meal and being around people who weren't judging me.

    I get the sense from what I've read here and there that the JWs "softened" their stance on this and that it's "okay" to eat a meal with your relatives on holidays. But, when I was in it was a no-no.

    When I "faded" from the religion, I made SURE I reconnected with all my relatives and celebrated every holiday. Never mind the "pagan" nonsense. That was just an excuse for the religion.

    All the Jehovah's Witness religion wanted to do was SEPARATE and isolate a new study from their non-Witness relatives. I made sure I rectified this error before it was too late and I'm glad I did!

  • Steel
    Steel

    I always thought holiday witnesses was kind of a taboo thing to do. At least it is here.

  • DATA-DOG
    DATA-DOG

    We had a CA on the 25th, so there was no chance for anything fun. The GB sure know how to eff up vacations....

    I skipped, of course...

    DD

  • WTWizard
    WTWizard

    I wonder how long it will take for the washtowel, or some of the hounders therein, to come up with the solution for lousy field circus turnout on holidays. The solution: Require everyone to be out from 8 AM (not 9:30, 8) until 7:30 PM every holiday. Presume they have the whole time off from work. Only boasting sessions are allowed to pre-empt it--you have to attend whatever boasting session (or stupid mission) is scheduled. If you are not in field circus, or you turn in early (except to attend the boasting session, if any), you are deemed to be celebrating that holiday and will be dealt with accordingly.

  • blondie
    blondie

    I pioneered in 3 different congregations where the BOE scheduled the annual reading of the pioneer letter and individual pep talks on Christmas. One elder would host it at his house inviting all the pioneers and their spouses, as well as the other elders and their spouses for dinner afterwards, turkey and the fixings and watching sports games afterwards for the men and coffee klatches in another room for the sisters, basically a gossiping session.

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