so this JW tells me that the "friends" won't come to their home because a disfellowshipped family member is living there.
But the "friends" will come there to do work to make money. So they can't come visit to encourage and be kind to their fellow "brothers and sisters". They can come to make money though. The JW doesnt see anything wrong with this.
They are hoping that the family member leaves so that the JW's can come visit for social reasons.