From about the time of my DA/DF, my father went several years without saying a word to me -- and my mother held out a year or so longer than my father. At my uncle's funeral my mother even pulled my father away while he was actually apologizing to me for never having spoken to me since the time of my then-recent near death accident. (A car trying to run a light went around the stopped car in front of him and ran up on the sidewalk to offer me my first and only "out of body" experience.) I was in the hospital and disabled for weeks -- and yet no call from my loving JW parents, thanks to their trust in the holy spirit guidance of the WTS/FDS.
They've gotten 100% better -- and so have I. I still love them, but at least when I recall the experience above, I don't have to feel too badly about "troubling" them over their questionable doctrines.
I called him today. It started out with an expected conversation about a computer issue. I mentioned the "police state" here in parts of NYC, and he asked what I thought about the war. Wow! My parents have talked about mostly fluff for a couple years now, primarily so that they can stay on good terms with the grandkids, I figured. Still, I've never been asked an opinion about something political. That's tantamount to being asked my opinion about religion, which they can never do. So I went for it.
Dad already knew about Cheney's (and Schultz'?) monetary interests in this war, and I moved on past oil and restructuring dollars. I mentioned a Website that showed how Rumsfeld and other right-wing Bush supporters had already been pushing (since before the Bush/Gore election) for the fall of Iraq, the weakening of non-anglo European alliances and the impotence of the UN.
When he agreed to the UN, I apologized in advance for bringing up issues I'm not supposed to talk about and said that I have heard rumors for months now that the Wt will soon be dropping the UN issue due to recent events. (I think he still knows next to nothing about the UN/NGO issue.) He was uninterested until I mentioned that the 6/1/03 Wt says "we know who Gog is, but we don't know who will attack us." The UN is conspicuous by its absence. (Thanks UnDisfellowshiped for your recent post: http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/50250/1.ashx ).
Since he was still listening I managed another volley. I said, maybe it's just speculation, but I think this information is accurate because when I had contacts that told me in 1984 that the "generation" would need to be redefined after 1914+70 years, it was redefined by the end of 1985.
We still managed to end the conversation cordially. He turned it back to the computer issue.
Gamaliel