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The Study Article 2 from the January 2025 Watchtower Study Edition titled “Husbands, Honor Your Wife” represents a marked shift from the earlier, stricter Watchtower stance on marital intimacy among Jehovah’s Witnesses. This article’s language feels more relaxed, with paragraph 17 and its footnote stating, “The Bible does not provide details as to what sexual practices between a husband and a wife should be considered clean or unclean. A Christian couple must make decisions that reflect their resolve to Jehovah, to please each other, and to maintain a clean conscience. Generally speaking, a couple would not discuss with others this intimate aspect of their marriage.”
This more hands-off tone is quite the departure from what we might call the “classic” Watchtower approach. In years past, Watchtower publications weren’t shy about setting specific boundaries for what married Witnesses could or could not do in their private lives. Back then, intimacy was not only a personal matter between husband and wife but also, to some extent, a congregational one, with strict expectations about what practices were “acceptable” and what were, well, “dirty.”
Consider the April 15, 1974 Watchtower, where it was explicitly stated that “certain practices, although legal and acceptable in marriage, are considered perverted by Jehovah’s standards and should be shunned by Christians.” This quote left little room for couples to determine for themselves what might or might not be appropriate; instead, they were presented with a clear set of rules that kept certain practices off-limits. Privacy in the marital bedroom was considered secondary to upholding what the Watchtower deemed to be moral purity.
In the January 15, 1983 *Watchtower*, the organization took it a step further by reinforcing that “unnatural practices, even if consensual in marriage, could threaten a couple’s spiritual standing and could lead to serious spiritual consequences.” This language was particularly powerful, instilling a sense of communal responsibility to remain pure, even in private, for the sake of spiritual health. Essentially, the Watchtower’s view was that couples were accountable not just to each other but to the congregation—and even Jehovah himself—regarding their intimate lives.
And then there was the March 15, 1983 *Watchtower*, which asserted that “Christians should not view marriage as a license to engage in morally questionable conduct.” This was followed up by urging spouses to “show restraint” in the marital bed. Such instructions created a clear “bedroom conduct code,” where intimacy was something that had to meet specific standards if one wanted to remain in “good standing.” Over time, these boundaries became something of an unwritten rulebook, and many Witnesses grew accustomed to the idea that their private choices were subject to organizational approval.
So here we are in 2025, and the Watchtower now tells us that “the Bible does not provide details as to what sexual practices between a husband and a wife should be considered clean or unclean.” This shift marks a stark contrast to those earlier Watchtower declarations, which provided plenty of “details” about what should and shouldn’t be practiced between a husband and wife. We remember the tone of those older articles, which issued clear mandates and even warnings that straying from the rules could bring about consequences like disfellowshipping—a form of excommunication that could sever both social and family ties.
One example of this older approach can be found in the September 1, 2006 *Watchtower*, where it was noted, “A Christian husband who practices immoral conduct with his wife may be viewed as defiling his relationship with Jehovah.” This strong language effectively drew a line in the sand, implying that marital practices that did not meet organizational standards could actually “defile” a person’s standing with God.
In light of such past statements, the new tone of the 2025 article feels like a considerable relaxation of the Watchtower’s previous grip on members’ intimate lives. Where older publications insisted on specific behavioral codes, this latest article appears to step back, suggesting that “a Christian couple must make decisions that reflect their resolve to Jehovah, to please each other, and to maintain a clean conscience.” This softer wording offers an unexpected degree of autonomy, as if the organization is finally suggesting that married couples might have the wisdom to make their own choices without a list of do’s and don’ts to follow.
But it’s worth noting that this newfound “freedom” is a late arrival. Jehovah’s Witnesses of earlier generations who might have crossed certain “moral lines” in their bedrooms risked very real consequences, including disfellowshipping. This wasn’t merely a suggestion but a mandate that could affect every aspect of a person’s life. As noted in the February 15, 1978 *Watchtower*, “The congregation must be kept clean, and therefore, those who refuse to uphold Jehovah’s standards can be removed from among us.” For these past generations, the Watchtower’s stance on marital intimacy wasn’t something to take lightly; it was an organizational mandate, enforced for the supposed purity of the congregation.
With this new, softer language, the Watchtower has altered its approach, saying that these decisions are “up to the couple” and “their conscience.” There’s even a tone of respecting privacy, as the article states, “Generally speaking, a couple would not discuss with others this intimate aspect of their marriage.” This privacy is a curious departure from a time when it was not unheard of for congregation elders to ask probing questions if they believed a couple was engaging in practices considered “unclean.” In the August 15, 1978 *Watchtower*, it was even suggested that elders “may need to take action” if a married couple’s intimacy did not align with the moral standards set by the organization. For many Witnesses, this intrusion into their personal lives was seen as a necessary part of maintaining “congregational purity.”
One might see this transformation as both a step forward and a paradox. On one hand, it acknowledges that perhaps micromanaging a couple’s private decisions was overstepping. This new stance suggests that the organization is willing to let couples decide for themselves, as long as they do so with “a clean conscience.” Yet, the language of maintaining “a clean conscience” and “honoring Jehovah” still comes with an undertone of judgment, a reminder that freedom is not without strings attached. For a devout Witness, the expectation of “maintaining a clean conscience” isn’t necessarily as liberating as it might sound when decades of teachings have defined exactly what “clean” means.
Some might even view this shift as a belated gesture toward personal autonomy, one that previous generations of Jehovah’s Witnesses could have only dreamed of. For those who endured the era of rigid bedroom guidelines, however, this change may feel a bit hollow. How many individuals had their private lives scrutinized and reputations tarnished simply because their personal choices didn’t align with the Watchtower’s previous standards? The serene tone of this new paragraph glosses over the fact that this shift is a recent one. For decades, Witnesses weren’t exactly encouraged to “keep things private”; instead, they were often subject to an implicit (and sometimes explicit) expectation to disclose private details if elders deemed it necessary.
In the end, this paragraph reads almost like a strategic rebranding, a calculated step away from the intimate micromanagement that the Watchtower has historically imposed. It’s as if the organization wants to preserve its moral influence while acknowledging that, perhaps, married couples deserve a bit of privacy. Yet, the shift in tone doesn’t erase the long history of strict oversight, nor does it fully address the impact that oversight had on countless lives and relationships. So, while this newfound freedom may seem like a sign of progress, it’s a reminder that institutional change doesn’t always come with an apology—sometimes, it just quietly rewrites the rules.