G's lovely and loyal to the organization mother (due to many reasons), gave an unexpected reaction when I asked "how is brother W. our favorite CO and friend since her early youth years? Is he still alive?"
She reacted "He is still alive, but sidelined like the rest of the old gard. For the younger ones. Or does that sounds too negative, does it?"
Never ever heard this kind of reactions from a most peacefull person.
G.