The Ghost of Christmas Past

by Ex-Witless 2 Replies latest jw friends

  • Ex-Witless
    Ex-Witless

    Title: The Ghost of Christmas Past

    I remember the day Christmas ended for me, too young to know what that meant. A hole in my heart every holiday season is something I’d live to resent.

    One day long ago I was six or so when dad explained it to me. New found faith and new found grace would replace our family tree.

    I kept my head down with a smile and a frown as they played songs and spread holiday cheer. Inside I yearned to be like them and hold this holiday dear.

    No presents for me, no eggnog or tree, no fond Christmases to remember. All these years just ducking my head and wishing it wasn’t December.

    Many a time I’d walk down the street and see a beautiful tree through a window. The people inside were happy and warm and a kid playing with his new gizmo.

    Now I’m grown up and no longer hold the faith that kept me from it. I’m trying to feel that holiday warmth despite my dysfunctional plummet.

    So many years of feeling left out have left their mark on me. I want to be jolly and laugh and sing and see a lighted tree.

    Awkward at first, I develop a thirst for eggnog and holiday laughter. Instead of a wound or a hole in my heart, it's a day I’ll cherish hereafter.



    My feelings about Christmas-
    Xoxoxo

  • smiddy3
    smiddy3

    I can feel and relate to your sentiments ex-witless from the other side of the coin.Because I was a father who deprived my children from having grown up with Xmas ,Easter and birthdays ,times when children really enjoy and get a kick out of the festivities associated with these events .

    And that`s a regret I will take to the grave with me not that I dwell on it for what is past is past and can`t be changed .

    However we did pick times throughout the year when we would shower them with presents ,so maybe I did feel a pang of guilt because I wasnt a born in JW I was a convert at 20.

    So I grew up with Xmas and birthdays and easter as my wife did.

  • Ultimate Axiom
    Ultimate Axiom

    Nice one, Ex-witness, I too can relate to that. It was decades after I left before I could bring myself to join in the Christmas festivities, such was the baggage I was carrying. And like smiddy3, I too was on the other side, depriving my kids of Christmas (not to mention birthdays) and making their school-day Christmases a nightmare.

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