Marriage arrangement, after you become a JW ???

by run dont walk 3 Replies latest watchtower beliefs

  • run dont walk
    run dont walk

    I was asked to donate to my parents anniversary gift, now my dad died 10 years ago, but my brothers and sisters still get my mom something every year.

    Me being the smart ass that I am sometimes, said, "isn't this a pagan custom, why are we celebrating such a thing, since Mom and Dad were married in a Catholic church, long before they became witnesses."

    My brother says, "this is an arrangement by Jehovah." I said "No it's not, do I have to repeat myself, Mom and Dad were not witnesses when they got married, therefore Jehovah did not bless the marriage did he." he said I was knit picking.

    If you think about it, I am surprised the Watchtower doesn't make people get married again after they become witnesses. Since most who were married before becoming witnesses, were married by a pastor, reverend, or JOP, who would not have Jehovah's blessing.

    I only remember one occasion where a couple got married again after becoming JW's, and they said they did it because they did not feel the people that married them the first time had Jehovah's blessing. Anyone else hear of such an event.

    any thoughts or comments ???

  • shotgun
    shotgun

    Hi RDW

    I've never heard of ones getting remarried after joining the borg.

    I've never heard of celebrating an anniversary after one of the mates dies either. Maybe a kind of rememberence of sorts but not an anniversary with gifts.

    I had a relative tell me about a group of JW's getting together to celebrate being Canadian Citizens....They are from Korea and were celebrating 5 or 10 years as Canadians. I said WHAT....why don't they wait until Canada day to do that, and got the dirty look. Have you ever heard of anything like that?

  • Maverick
    Maverick

    Interesting idea. I was married in the Kingdumb Hall the first time and then on our tenth got married by a female justice of the peace! As a Dud no less! Funny thing is I don't think they think this one all the way through! They're grateful to get you married, period! Once you are then they put it to you and start to undermind you! Maverick

  • garybuss
    garybuss



    Then we'd have to get remarried when we leave the JW's:-) Most of us get married as Witnesses and divorced when we leave. I'd love it if my brother came to me to buy our mother a gift. I'd gladly contribute.


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