by SheilaM 6 Replies latest social humour
I won't name names but I found this funny.
I have had a hard time knowing how to feel about my Mother's death. I haven't cried much just a lot of frowning and feeling weird. Certain people (who will remain unnamed) some who I have butted heads with have been so kind to me in PM's that I actually have been able to cry (it's a good thing)
For those of you, who know who you are THANK YOU SO MUCH
((((Sheila)))) accept my hug, and sincere condolences.
As I write/type, I know my mother is fading, sort of a shell of a person, but no one inside. She's so out of it, and her grip of reality leaves plenty to be desired.
I am slowly mourning her loss, more of what she once was, as opposed to what she has become.
Nonetheless, Sheila, Rayzorblade extends his open arms, kleenex and coffee/biscuits.
Here for you and Thunder, any time!
Rayzorblade
Thanx Ray.
Thunder
I'm happy you were able to cry, hope it released some of the pain.
You're right, it's amazing how people will surprise you with their goodwill when the chips are down.
And if yr bro gives you more grief, just let me know, I'll have at him
{{{{{{{sheila}}}}}}
tal
Rayzorblade: You have been such a wonderful friend. I appreciate the love you have shown to Thunder and I.
Talesin: Thank you so much. I guess my Brothers actions actually for once pissed my eldest sis off LOL He knew she had called, he knew I don't speak to him and yet he called so I guess he complained to my sister about me hanging up on him and she was furious LOL
I'm glad you were able to cry. I don't cry easily, but boy when it happens, there is a flood. I suppress so much, that getting it out is hard for me. But I talk things to death, and maybe that is a way to deal with it too.
Talk and cry and things will get better.
(((((SheilaM)))))
I guess I missed the thread about your mom dying....I've been...errr...busy...
I lost my mom four years ago...suddenly...
Grieving is a very natural process....no matter what our relationship might have been like...Letting yourself grieve is very healthy...
I'm prouda yew!
(((((Hugs)))))
ESTEE
