For Panic Attack/Anxiety sufferers........

by ScoobySnax 9 Replies latest jw friends

  • ScoobySnax
    ScoobySnax

    Does anyone here suffer with panic attacks or anxiety? I guess I have since 1999 after coming out of a particularly abusive relationship that stripped my confidence. Funny thing back then was that my first "attack" was whilst I was on holiday relaxed when it struck. It was awful, the worst feeling you could ever imagine, more than a feeling that you were about to die, a feeling like you need to run, but you don't know where to escape, the worst thing is not knowing what you're trying to escape from. When I used to hear in my job about people who had "nerves" or panic attacks, I used to think, for goodness sake, get a grip. How wrong I was.

    Things have got better for me, I picked up a couple of good books, one being by a Dr Claire Weekes, this woman is/was amazing, the first person to ever understand what I was feeling, it sure helped me on the way to recovery. Things are much better these days, I just have the occasional "attack" like yesterday whilst sitting in a boring nurse managers meeting, suddenly I just knew I had to get out, I felt breathless, panicky, the room spun, everything seemed to blur, my legs felt like jelly and the floor seemed to give way, so I made my excuses and left. Of course I felt daft afterwards, and felt like slapping myself up a bit, but when its happening it feels oh so real. Correct breathing techniques help so much though. The funny thing is colleagues at work tell me they think I would be the last person to suffer from them. I suppose its because I always look so confident to others and put on a work front, when sometimes underneath I feel like I'm crumbling.

    I suppose what I'm trying to say is, have hope if you suffer from this, whether you have, do or might sometime in the future. You are not alone, things do get better, you learn to not let your mind bluff you so much into a downward spiral. So Take courage. Also pick up that book I mentioned. Any thoughts?

    Peace all. Scoob

  • cruzanheart
    cruzanheart

    I have suffered from panic/anxiety attacks off and on for years. They are HORRIBLE. I hate the feeling of being carried away by something over which I have no control. Therapy helped me tremendously and I don't have very many. When I do, I know I need to deal with some unresolved issue, and then they recede for a while.

    Thanks for the reading recommendation!

    Nina

  • Lady Lee
    Lady Lee

    I suffered from anxiety attacks for years - most of my life in fact and never realized what they were - it was just a part of life for me. Since I dealt with many of the demons from my past I don't have them anymore.

    A real turning point for me was to be able to lie on my back for longer than 60 seconds without wanting to scream.

  • fairy
    fairy

    Yes i suffer them....sometimes.........my attacks bring on "sinus tachycardia" which is heart palpitations and you also get a feeling of "butterflies" in your throat.............the doctor said it wont kill me.......they put me on a ecg and he said my heart was ok.

  • Big Tex
    Big Tex

    I had panic/anxiety attacks when I was in therapy. Haven't had any since.

    I'm glad you found an understanding book Scoob. Do you know what the fear is about?

  • Undecided
    Undecided

    I had several mild ones. I would be somewhere and felt like I had to leave for no reason. I could hardly control it for a few minutes until I just made myself settle down and come to grips with the feeling, then it would go away. Terrible feeling. Sometimes I feel a very mild depression now, nothing I can't handle, but it does take away your feeling of enjoyment of living for a while.

    Ken P.

  • Blueblades
    Blueblades

    Hi Scooby! Yes,I suffered from them in the past.Not anymore.Dr.Claire Weekes' book "HOPE AND HELP FOR YOUR NERVES",also,'Peace From Nervous Suffering', was what helped me to get this behind me.Another good book that I can recommend is,"ANXIETY & PANIC ATTACKS--Their Cause and Cure. By Robert Handly,with Pauline Neff.

    These books have helped me to Conquer Fear,reduce,or, eliminate anxiety etc.I hope this information will be helpful to others also.

    Blueblades

  • Englishman
    Englishman

    Hi Scooby,

    It's all to do with adrenalin and the sympathetic nervous system, which can be anything but sympathetic.

    I've had it, so I know what it's about. Anyone who hasn't experienced it has a clue as to how awful it can be. Basically, the nervous system becomes triggered. Then the conscious mind tries to control it. More adrenalin is secreted in a fear cycle that just escalates out of all proportion to whatever has triggered the attack. The mouth becomes so dry that speech is almost impossible.

    Not nice!

    Englishman.

  • joelbear
    joelbear

    I have really bad panic attacks. I had one Thursday. I am on a medication that is helping a lot, but I still have one from time to time. I am on Anaphronil which has helped. Joel

  • breal
    breal

    I have major anxiety around driving due to many major accidents (always as a passenger). I force myself to do it on occassion but just the thought of driving or being a passenger (especially when the weather is bad) sets me off and I imagine the worst possible scenario. To try to overcome this I force myself to drive when I can in areas I am familiar with (short trips) and make sure that I give myself lots of time so there is no added stress. The rest of the time I am a huge fan of transit...something comforting about being in one of the biggest vehicles on the road.

    The panic attacks I feel around people are more associated with being in tune with other peoples emotions to much and feeling overwhelmed by them. Using a few breathing techniques or allowing myself to simply leave the setting that is triggering my anxiety seems to help. Like you said other people don't seem to notice this in me, but inside & to me it is scary.

    All I can say is try to figure out if you have certain triggers, and take baby steps in trying to deal with it!

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