self expression

by the_red_pill 7 Replies latest jw friends

  • the_red_pill
    the_red_pill

    hey all im new to this site its really interesting to see people working out issues, getting things off their chests, and building a community. im 23 and broke with the faith when i left my parents house at 17, in effect i had before that but it took a while to free my mind from the doctrine. i like to think all that stuff is behind me but you know, upbringing affects you a lot. i felt very isolated as a child and continued to this day struggle with that. maybe i will always feel like an outsider.

    writing, music, self expression has helped me a lot. i dont think much about those days but of course it still affects me deeply because my parents put so much pressure on me to believe a certain way, were very sheltering and psychologically controlling.

    i was wondering if some of you have found some comfort in art and music and such, self expression can be like a form of therapy. its a space outside of any organized religion where you can find a higher meaning in things around you, interpret and make sense of things.

    also, turning negative into positive, ive used my unusual (though not so unusual looking around this site!) upbringing to be a source of inspiration for creative writing. many people ive met who do not know what it is like to be raised JW find it fascinating to hear about. and often theyve had experiences that echoed mine in some way, from people ive met who were raised by gung-ho mormons, communist party members, etc.

    keep writing, y'all. thank you.

  • franklin J
    franklin J

    red pill

    welcome to the forum,

    frank

  • invictus
    invictus

    the_red_pill,

    welcome to the forum.

    i really applaud you for your strenght and determination to better yourself and I believe you are on the right path - self expression through arts and music is trully therapeutic and liberating.

    and taking part in disscussion boards like this one is great help, where you can read life stories, research articles,express yourself and your opinion on different subject and allong the way make friends who will accept you with no strings attached.

    I wish you all the best and hope to hear more from you.

    invictus

  • Zoewrex
    Zoewrex

    Red Pill - Thank you for posting and while I was younger I used music to express myself since I couldn't 'show' how I felt. I also used poetry and I wrote many short stories. Later in life I still struggle with letting go of the hurt and wonder of it all and just live. I stopped looking to my parent for approval and began seeing them as people - who make mistakes and I still have to fight off the childness' of (why can't life be like everyone elses) things. Basically, I have to let go of my expectations of them and enjoy my life for what it is. Their approval is no longer necessary and that's a relief for all of us.

  • Tatiana
    Tatiana

    welcome, red pill.......

    Art and music are good ways to find comfort when remembering. What kind of music do you listen to? Or do you make your own?

    April

  • SanFranciscoJim
    SanFranciscoJim
    also, turning negative into positive, ive used my unusual (though not so unusual looking around this site!) upbringing to be a source of inspiration for creative writing.

    I'm a science fiction writer. My first book is due to be published shortly.

    My second novel, which I am currently working on, will be based prominently on JW doctrine and Biblical teachings. So far, it's been very therapeutic, and fun to write.

    Welcome to the forum Red Pill! By the way, I've been out of the Organization for 23 years. You were born the same year I was disfellowshipped!

  • Badger
    Badger

    Welcome Red Pill!

    Nice choice of expression as a therapy. As witnesses, we don't get much of an opportunity to show our talents and colors. I never saw such hostility from people in the organization as when I wrote...even my parents.

    That's not God's plan. We're supposed to use our talents and gifts to their potential and enrich our lives and those around us. There is no greater expression of Divine Love than showing the world what He gave us.

  • Mulan
    Mulan

    Hey, we already have someone with your name TheRedPill

    I'll have to tell him you are similar.

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