Life (One)

by Paradise Found 5 Replies latest jw friends

  • Paradise Found
    Paradise Found

    "Life has lost its meaning to me "

    "Iam fed up" ...."Life is the same old stuff"

  • Celia
    Celia

    it certainly is hard at times, it even sucks....

  • iiz2cool
    iiz2cool

    I've been sick of it for some time now.

    Walter

  • blondie
    blondie

    I understand, I have been there, but don't stay there.

    First, see your doctor and make sure there is nothing physical contributing to your outlook, depression, or some illness that has depression as a component.

    Next, see a professional that has an objective view of your situation and can help you see your options.

    They may also be able to point you to a support group, people with similar problems who have have success changing their circumstances or changing their outlook of them.

    There have been so many times I felt I was doomed and nothing would change, first with the abuse I suffered in my family, alcoholism, and finally the abuse at the KH and feeling I was trapped.

    Each time I took the above steps and over time my viewpoint changed, I could see my options and act on them. I will not be a pollyanna and say it was easy or happened quickly. But I persisted and in time...the absue issues took over 25 years to resolve, to no longer be crippled by anger towards my parents and others, anger which deadened me and my enjoyment of life.

    Blondie (don't give up, if one road doesn't take you there, find another)

  • Paradise Found
    Paradise Found

    "BLONDIE"

    You are a very special person.

  • lovinlife
    lovinlife

    Paradise,

    There was a time when I finally fell to the floor in total despair. I laid there for 4 hrs and sobbed. I thought I would rather never get up, but just die there. But Blondie is right. Do those things and you will be pleasantly surprised. After years in the darkness of unhappiness, I can finally look around and see beauty again! And you will too....just hang in there.

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