Amazing started a series on Taking Back your Life and it reminded me of this poem.
AFTER A WHILE.....
....you learn the subtle difference
between holding a hand
and chaining a soul
And you learn that love doesn't mean leaving
that company doesn't mean security.
And you begin to learn
that kisses aren't contracts
and presents aren't promises;
And you begin to accept your defeats
with your head held up and you eyes opened.
with the grace of an adult,
not the grief of a child
And you learn to build your roads on today
because tomorrows ground is too uncertain
for plans
After awhile, you learn that even sunshine
burns if you get too much;
So you plant your own garden
and decorate your own soul
instead of waiting for someone
to bring you flowers;
And you learn that you really can endure...
that you really are strong
and you have worth.
.....................Author Unknown
JanG
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