about two weeks after the first set of brothers came, a new set from the local hall came by again this past Saturday morning.
(the first visit...if you are interested. http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/65579/1.ashx ...no biggie)
My son said it was a different set, two youngish brothers...he said they could be between "my uncles age and your age mom" as my son put it...so they are pretty young between 25 and 35. He told them I was asleep...which I was (I admit it, I do sleep in on Saturdays!!!).
I did not find out until a few days later that they had come by. We were in the car coming back from somewhere (I cannot remember where) and my son turned to me, and said, "Mom, I have to tell you something, but it is going to make you mad, but I have to tell you..."
Basically, he did not want to tell me because I was so upset last time, and he was scared by how angry I got about it, and didnt want to upset me. I was really taken aback. I had no idea I came off that mad about the whole thing....I felt really bad for my son. I am glad he told me that they came by, and that I mad him afraid...I had no idea...I learned something about myself, thats for sure!
It made me realize that I obviously have to work on my temper...this is the only incident that has made he feel that way, he says. But I didn't think I was that mad at all...
The second thing is how foolish and silly I have been to let the fact that they stop by get me all worked up. I was only really mad the first time because I felt betrayed by my mom. I told my son that had I been up, I would have gone to the door and said, nice to meet ya, I know where you are, don't let the door hit your ass on the wait out. That I was not mad at them....I was upset at my mother, and that I was over it.
The third thing I learned is maybe I shouldnt sleep so late on Saturdays. I don't want my 13 year old son cringe if someone is at the door.