Hello Expatbrit,
You raised very good questions. We live in a very confusing period of time. We look back and see peoples in many lands taking the lives of babies in times of war and conquest and say "how barbaric!"
However today a woman or minor can have her unborn baby "aborted" piece by piece in her late term all the while the baby screams, (silently?), in agony and it's not only legal but is looked on as a "right".
I say this because I believe that ones point of view plays the greatest role in how we understand such disturbing occurences such as infanticide. I believe that human beings have only a limited sense of justice but a limitless sense of injustice. This can be seen by the cruelty of the 20th century alone, Hitler and the gas chambers, Vietnam, Cambodia, Iraq and the Kurds, and so on.
But what about God sanctioning infanticide, such as in the time of Isreals' creation when they were driving out the Hittites, the Jebusites and so on, how He told the Jewish soldiers "not to let their eye feel sorry" for the young ones they were to kill? Or how about the Biblical account of the flood? There were sure to be innocent babies who drowned along with the children and adults. How could a KIND, LOVING, RIGHTEOUS God KILL an innocent baby He helped bring into the world and who NEVER had an opportunity to willfully sin against Him?
I think the strightfoward answer is the hardest one for contemporary people to accept because it means we don't have all the answers and we are not in control of our lives. God was willing to sacrifice the lives of those innocent, (yes innocent), babies for the future wellbeing of His people, knowing the type of influence they would have on His people when they grew up. Does God have the sovereign right to do this? Yes He does. He is the creator. This exact type of thinking goes directly SOUTH of what we as modern, individualistic, Americans precieve as our inherited rights to live our lives and not be "harrased" by a supreme being.
I don't want to live by a set of "rules" by ANYBODY! That's how I feel. But my mind tells me there is more to life than what I want. With the gift of life I believe there is a responsibility to live with respect for others and their needs and to have a hope for the future. The Bible gives me that hope.
As far as Jahovah commiting infanticide at Armageddon, well, I don't believe that will even be necessary. That's not to say I know Gods' mind. I don't! Only a fool thinks he knows the mind of God, and I'm no fool.
I believe, (although some might think naively), that all who want a future WILL have a future. That includes those innocent babies God killed while in the horror of this system of things.
I appologise for the longwindedness of this reply but I had to get my thoughts together, such as they are.
CornerStone