Last night's exitement

by dustyb 2 Replies latest jw friends

  • dustyb
    dustyb

    last nite was exiting. my g/f came over when i was sleeping around 7:30 PM (around there). she woke me up and she started crying, told me that she had enough at home and that she threw all her clothes in her car and told her mom that she was moving out. so we talked for awhile and i put in a movie (A Beautiful Mind, a really good movie). All of the sudden, my g/fs mom knocks at the front door (my living room is in the back of the house by the kitchen). she asks my grandmother if her daughter was here, and WITHOUT asking she RUSHED into the kitchen and found her daughter (without permission mind you). But here's the big part. She comes running in here, then tells my g/f to go home (which kinda pissed me off because she told her mom that she was out of the house). THEN she calls my grandma, grandpa, g/f and me ALL bad bad people, that ALL of us are disobediant, we are ALL wrong (pretty much everything derogatorry in the book). Then she called my grandpa a liar, because she called earlier and said that my g/f wasn't here. He didn't know she was here because all of us walk in the garage door instead of the front door. (keep in mind BOTH my grandparents are 60+ and my grandfather is ill. He has emphysema and he is on dialysis. So they leave, and on the way out my g/fs mom is BLAH BLAH BLAH, just talking really bad upon my grandparents, me and my g/f. My grandfather does what anybody that is mad does, he calls her a bitch and closes the door. So my g/f drives off, but instead of going home, speeds off and loses her mom and goes to another friends house to stay the night. In the meantime, my g/fs mom goes home and tells her husband which is a TOTAL cockhead dickhead bastard (i can't say enough about him), and without telling him the whole story (like it mattered), she told him that my grandfather called him a bitch. HE calls my grandma and starts YELLING at her and says things and that he wants to speak with either the man of the house or me. keeps on calling and calling, and when i get on the net, he calls MY cell phone and leaves messages (to which i haven't listened to yet). while doing all of this, he keeps on threatening my grandfather, etc etc etc and it goes on and on. but none of that makes me as mad as what she said today.

    i go and tell my g/f some options that she has, because my g/f's mom is trying to get a restraining order on me, and is trying to get her license revoked and such. but get this shit. she tells my g/f's step-brother that if she comes home and apologizes for what my g/f DID, MY G/FS MOTHER WILL FORGIVE MY G/F! what shit is that? here is my g/f, we are watching a movie and talking about what we can do to get her out of this situation at my house, mom runs in and bitches out my grandparents and says things that she has NO right in heaven or on earth to say about my grandparents (who are very good people), and harasses me and my grandparents all night (and i don't think its stopped yet), and she expects my g/f to apologize for what she did? she expects my g/f to apologize for getting out of an emotionally abusive household, coming to cry her eyes out to me, and says ABSOLUTELY nothing when she was at my grandma's house. let me ask, what wrong did my g/f do? who should be apologizing here? its BS.....

    EDITED TO ADD

    by the way, my g/fs parents profess to be outstanding jehovah's witnesses...........

  • SadElder
    SadElder

    Hello again dusty

    Perhaps they need to be reminded that the use of telephones for harassment is, I believe, a felony. Save the messages for evidence. And perhaps send a copy to the eldumbs in her hall. That will give them something to think about. Perhaps you might indicate that you're planning on suing them for aiding these people in this action. That ought to get their panties in a knot.

  • darkuncle29
    darkuncle29
    by the way, my g/fs parents profess to be outstanding jehovah's witnesses...........

    Aren't they though.

    I hate this kind of crap, I'm sorry for you having to deal with it. And your grandparents too. Sadelder's idea sounds good. My idea would be to have a White Whitch bless the place to reflect their negative energy back to them, or to just heal your home-I don't know really how that works.

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