Has anyone ever been persecuted for being a JW??

by orangefatcat 8 Replies latest jw friends

  • orangefatcat
    orangefatcat

    I know this post is a little different from most, but I was really wanting to know if anyone had ever been bodily persecuted as a J W.

    I was . And here is a part of my story. In high school there was this very heavy strong guy and a couple of his henchmen. They called me a Bible Thumper when ever there was no teacher around. One day as I was existing the school door this guy jumped on me and put me to the ground and started punching my face over and over and over again. I was not capable to help myself as the yard was completely empty. He knew I stayed after school for typing practise and geography. So he was lurking around waiting for me to come out in to the yard so he could attack me. I have to tell you that this was by no means the end. Each and every day after classes he was waiting for me at the end of the school fence of the property of the school. Then he would kick and punch me , call me bible tumper and alot of other stuff and then slug my again and again really hard. One day he went deep into his lungs and brought up a huge hork and spit on my face. It was disgusting. He was a pig. I told him to leave me alone and that he was a pig. Then he would punch me over and over again. At school in the morning if he was in the corridor where my locker was he would be right there and then punch me in my spine on the bones and I would land face front into the metal lockers. I was in agony, everyday this went on. I never told my parents until one night he set my coat on fire. Had he not told me that my coat was on fire I would have lost my hair and more than likely get burns to my neck and back of my skull. I was at the end of my ropes. I never did a thing to this guy and his buddies. They just seemed to hate me. I had alot of friends in high school so I couldn't figure out this guys hatred. He of course thought this was all funny and he would laught at me and kick and punch me more.

    So when I did tell my parents and showed them my coat my father went ballistic and called the police and he gave me hell for not telling them sooner. Oh well. So the cops came to speak to me about him and I told them what they had been doing to me for months. My father called the principle also and spoke with him and then he called the parents. After he was taken to jail they told me he addmitted to all that he had done to me, he and his friends. They said he will go to a reformatory for young men. I don't know what ever happened after that.

    On another occasion I had trouble, t he principle called the Society because I refused to read a book about demonism. He told Bethel it was part of the school cirriculum. ( spelling where is spell check I miss it). The Bethel told him that if I didn't want to read it it was because it was against my bible trained conscious. So Bethel suggested that they could let me read another book and do an oral and written review on it. So the teachers agreed. But they were by no means happy about it as I know this by the way they treated me after it. However when it came time to post the marks they gave me an "f" man I was livid. But my mother and father said it is just the perscution they are metting out to you and you have to accept it. So what else could I do.? Nothing I had to grin and bear it . It was the worst year of high school I ever had. It was shortly after that I left the school all together and started working to pay for pioneering, as the Society said in the 60s we don't need an education we can get it from God;s organization. Don't be a doctor, lawyer, or anything like that as 1975 was comming fast and they needed pioneers and missionaries and special pioneers to serve the congregations to encourage and strengthen one another for the days ahead. So that is what I did, I pioneered and then I moved to serve were the need was great as they say. That is another tale, which I will save for another time.

    Well I have to tell you, that it is true what people say who have been physcially hurt, because when I was being punch in my face constantly I prayed to Jehovah for strenght and I never felt any of the punches after the first one.

    Over the years of being a Jehovah's witness I counted it an honour to suffer this persectution for the sake of God. I think it helped me to realize that no matter what you choose in life that you can be mocked for your choices, but the outcome is this, that you are a better person for it. I hope you are understanding what I am meaning . As a witness and now not a witness I could still stand up to someone who wanted to do me harm and believe that I could endure it.

    I just thought I would share this story with you and wondered if anyone else had ever suffered by someone else.

    Love Orangefatcat.

  • blondie
    blondie

    I got the crap beat out of me in grade school once. The authorities got involved and the kids were suspended from school. I started learning that day how to defend myself. I always say, make the first punch count, because you are dead meat otherwise.

    Blondie

  • Sunspot
    Sunspot

    {{{{{OrangefatCat and Blondie}}}}}

    **I never told my parents until one night he set my coat on fire. **

    Your story is SO like my own five kids.....always getting punched and kicked and called names especially around any holiday where the others were participating in plays, or whatever. It always seemed to heighten then.

    Two of my boys had THEIR new winter coats set on fire on the school bus ,and my oldest was jumped on and beaten unconscious in the front yard while he was hunting on the ground for bugs to bring to school for a Science project. We moved out-of-state and to the country (from the city) the next Spring.

    You honestly hit on things I had forgotten, and on how this hideous religion made us behave---just "asking" to be treated badly (while the GB sits all nice and protected in their palace of safety from the rest of the world.

    hugs again,

    Annie

  • Nathan Natas
    Nathan Natas

    Orangefatcat, it infuriates me that a guy would stalk and attack a girl the way you were.

    Blondie has discerned the heart of the matter - the secret of self-defense is to inflict as much damage on your opponent as quickly as you can. Thinking of blocking and deflecting blows is a waste of time. get in there and poke his eyes out, kick him in the nuts and clap his ears, then walk away.

  • blondie
    blondie

    Nathan, your forgot "stomp on his/her head." (grin) You have to make sure they don't get up too soon before you have made your getaway. Fortunately, I wasn't taught to be a punching bag for Jehovah. But then there was enough abuse at home.

    You, lurkers out there, don't ask your children to take abuse at school that you would never take at work.

    Interestingly, it only took one demonstration of self-defense to convince the others to leave me alone. I moved a lot too. I don't know how things would have been if I had lived in the same community my whole school career.

    Remember, that just because you turn 18 doesn't mean the bullies evaporate. They just use new techniques.

    I took a self-defense course as an adult and discvoered that I had somehow taught myself karate and jujitsu techniques. Someday I may look into a formal course in it now that I am in the fade mode.

    Blondie

  • alamb
    alamb

    Gosh, I never thought about it until now. No. I have to say I was treated with respect by peers and others. My friends would ask and then listen to my weak explanation of holidays and life in general being pagan and immoral. My teachers commented on my convictions to my beliefs and left it at that.

    On the other hand, I have received persecution after leaving too painful to recall and write. Seems all my persecution has come from Jehovah's followers. huh.

  • Undecided
    Undecided

    Never had a problem at school. My non-JW buddy and I were the biggest in high school and they knew better than to get us on their case. We got along well with everyone so didn't have to fight. The principal liked us because we didn't give him any trouble and would give us privileges that others didn't get. We had a great time in school. I had only one fight in the seventh grade and after that he didn't pick on me anymore. The guy died a few weeks ago, his twin sister and an older brother has also died before he passed away. So many memories.

    Never had any persecution from anyone, at school or at work.

    Ken P.

  • Blueblades
    Blueblades

    Threaten with death, brother with me suffered a concussion, the car was wrecked,lead pipe to my head,spit on, book bag ripped and taken from me.Hadsidem territory.Its a bigger story than what I want to post here for now.Large group on both sides invovled,including one of the anointed.

    Blueblades

  • orangefatcat
    orangefatcat

    Wow some of you have had a bad go of it too. Blondie, your courageous. Lamb seems like you had problems with persecution later on in life. Sorry to hear that, Nathan thanks for your kind remarks. Sunspot so sorry to hear that your sons went through terrible times too. Being beat until unconscious. How dreadful. And I thought that no else would have had their coat set on fire. What a small world. Blueblades ************hugs***************.

    Yes I blame the society. They sit in their palace all nice and protected from everyone and we are the ones who suffer. Where is the justice in that . Some of them have never ever been persecuted.

    I knew a brother from Montreal, his name is Laurier Summur. He had been imprisioned many times during the ban in Canada and in Quebec. In fact my ex husband and I knew him well, I bought my wedding rings from him. Anyway some time after I left Quebec I found out that he was disfellowshipped. And you know when he was in prison he went through some dreadful things. Quite a bit has been written in the Society's literature about him. I am not sure if he ever returned to the organization or not. But he was used alot by the Society in Quebec for along long time. I guess he couldn't take the internal workings of the organization..

    I hope that we have all healed to some extent regarding bodily persecution. With that I am also referring to the persecution in the congregations when brothers stalk and rape sisters or boys and violate their innocence. For that I pray they get their just desserts. They are the worst the lowest form of life. But that is all in another post. Thanks for your responses once again

    All my love Orangefatcat..

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