Memories of happier times....................

by Sunnygal41 7 Replies latest jw friends

  • Sunnygal41
    Sunnygal41

    Well, some of you may have read my thread under the relationships topic that I am ending my three year relationship with my live-in because of his drugging and partying. I want to share some memories of happier times I had before I met this guy..............just feeling like walking down memory lane tonite...........so bear with me, and maybe enjoy seeing into my soul a little.......................This picture is when I was dating a guy with 3 kids..................this is a picture of his youngest and middle girls in my hot tub here at the apartment complex............

  • Sentinel
    Sentinel

    Ah, reflecting on good times is always positive. I believe that good can be found, even when we have faced great pain and heartache along the way. I remember my first husband, who had alcohol and addiction problems, and I married him when he wasn't that way, and watched him fade into a very miserable, unhappy person that I couldn't reach. Yet, he had such love deep inside him for all living creatures, the animals of the forest and even insects. He just couldn't deal with "man" in this world. His unhappiness, and his inability to rise above his pain caused him to take his own life. He had such a profound affect on my life. He took my virginity, and planted a seed in me that gave us a wonderful son. We were married fourteen years. It was a maricle this child was ever born, because doctors told me that I would probably never conceive again. My son is my joy now as I enter middle age.

    Treasure your moments, but don't let them bring you down. We grow and we learn, sometimes through our tears we see the light at the end of the tunnel. Live well.

    Love,

    /<

  • got my forty homey?
    got my forty homey?

    Here's a picture of a happier time for myself as well! Its when I had a chance to breakdance for the Pope! Then he took me into his private chamber to teach me the "ins and outs" of the catholic church!

  • Lady Lee
    Lady Lee

    Ah I just posted in your other thread - Keep these pictures where you can see them - better times - past and future - the near future and it is NOW

  • Sunnygal41
    Sunnygal41

    Absolutely!!!

  • Sunnygal41
    Sunnygal41

    I've always been able to do this with my tongue. I hear it's a genetic thing........one of your parents has to be able to do this also! Anyways, I'm looking at how happy I am in this picture. This again is during happier times than now...........

  • dannyboy
    dannyboy

    Terri,

    Best wishes, hang in there.

    Is it me, or is your life a bit in the cement mixer these days?? I'm thinking of another thread about your job situation (which I thought was all squared away).........

    Have you got "Better Days" by Faith Hill??

    ---Dan Who Can Talk Serious When He Wants To

  • Sunnygal41
    Sunnygal41

    Dan, yes, it's full of some chaotic moments..............but, I have great faith that things will get better.........sometimes situations happen because things need to change. I've been very unhappy with both my job and my relationship for the past year and some odd..........so, I look at where I am now as a chance to change what needs changing and move on to something better..............it's all about learning lessons and growing from them.

    Hugs,

    Terri

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