!*sigh*! I met my first ex-jw today.
I could hardly get any sleep last night and kept waking up... armageddon nightmares were bugging me. My family had left that morning for the entire day, and it was perfect for getting out of the house... I had already planned meeting waiting's son and his partner at a local starbucks in the morning. So, I got ready that morning... I guess the nevres were running so high my face broke out with a little acne overnight, but oh well... I'm a teenager. I was a nevrous wreck... I kept saying to myself: "You gotta go, you gotta go". And I did... the coffee place was close enough so I could walk to it, I arrived about 10-15 minutes early... I was really shaking badly and I thought if I had something to eat or something it would settle down. Well, it didn't... . So, there I was shaking out of pure, raw nerves just trying to calm down... lol, right accross from me there was these two parents fighting about their kid, I guess listening to them for I dunno how long got my mind off of everything.
Anyhow... they arrived right on time, I first met waiting's son and his partner was there shortly as well. They greeted me, shook my hand... after they sat down, I can't believe what I blurted out. I said; "God, I need a drink". Lol, and I did... I was sooo damn nervous... and I still was throughout the whole thing... shaky, distraught. I got a little more comfortable though, the pair of them were friendly, talkitive... very nice. I thought I was going to be balling thru the whole thing (I can be a baby, but didn't shed a single tear.. ), but it just felt so normal to *talk* to people who understand, and got to get a few things off my chest in the process. Ended up asking some questions regarding college and other things (I really, really, hope I didn't come across as whiney or anything ... allot of my blabbing was about the bOrg and stuff).
2 1/2 hours later, I looked at my watch at it was almost 12PM, I told them I probably should get home because my parents would be back soon. They offred me a ride home and dropped me off at the traffic circle where I lived nearby. Shook hands again and thanked them for coming to see me... walked the rest of the way home (just a few steps) and my parents came back not but just 2-3 minutes later. (I wish we had longer to talk) I told them I just got back from a walk... I was (and still am) reeling from the whole thing... I'm still trying to digest everything.. so overwhelming. I guess I learned a few things, tuesday or wendsday I'm going to get in contact with some people who can help me with my fincaicaly related college questions... I'm still not sure where to go for college (Either SC or ME, the latter would be cheaper but I don't like the winters and it would be in a rual area) and right now I'm just totaly drained... tired... my head and my eyes feel tired.(if that makes any sence) I had to attend a sort of going away 'get together' that lasted from 3 PM to 7 PM today and I felt so tired, people said it looked as if there was something wrong with me. A few people made some last comments to me because they probably wouldn't see me again... one person said "Do the right thing, go to bethal"... made me feel so guilty/dirty or something. And ever since I got back I've been just thinking over a delicious hot cup of tea just trying to make sence of life... doing it all alone feels overwhelming.
Overall... the meetup I had was great. Finaly got to meet the people I've been talking to for a few months and they turned out to be greater than I had hoped... I'm really *really* *really* appreciative of them coming down to talk to me... I should probably let them know if they don't already. I feel just so much better about things I now I feel like I have some real hope! Well, thats it for now... I'm tired and emotinaly drained to the max. Thanks for readin.
Your Fellow apostadude ~SC