Shots of Patron tequila might help. (humor)
As a non-Witness you are a threat to the spiritual cleanliness of a congregation, so JW's would rather prove their love to Jehovah (loyalty to the Watchtower) than be a friend to you. Also, JWs are afraid to associate with non-JWs, because another JW might see them and report back to an elder. Most JWs don't want a shepherding call.
Your best option is to make new non-JW friends and enjoy life with them. If you don't like the best option, then have you tried the following:
- Create a Facebook page showing all the fun things that you are doing.
- Send emails to JWs that show how whacky other dangerous cults are and include links to reputable websites like www.freedomofmind.com or www.familiesagainstcultteachings.org that they can view on their own.
- Send anonymous emails to JWs about a judgment against the Watchtower for enabling and protecting a pedophile, selling off multi-million dollar property, etc with some catchy subject line.
If JWs are not afraid to associate with you, you have more options like doing fun activities or hobbies where they can meet more non-JWs, you can ask them simple questions, you can help them learn about critically thinking for themselves, and you can ask them simple questions that get them to question why they use thought-stopping platitudes.
Best of Luck to you!
Peace be with you and everyone, who you love,
Robert
