update.... this uncle in question is my uncle frank from the del paso hieghts congregation in sacto..he is the one whose daughter died from drinking and drugs that i wrote about a while back...the reason he called was to get my dad out for some golf but he ended up questioning me... he told my dad the other day that he and my uncle sam are not comfortable associating with me because of my questions about the org and my lack of attendance.....i told my dad the questions my uncle asked and it made him furious then i threw some questions to my dad to repeat to my uncles..especially for my uncle sam in the pollock pines hall.....i said, "when was the last time uncle sam has called me? never...........when has he seen my new home? never..........and last question, when has he ever picked up my kids to go fishing, camping or to the meetings? never...my dad was in a total outrage by then..i figured why argue with them, i planted the questions and i know my dad threw it at both of them...now they have something to chew on...do you think? the mole