Now that should be fun.
Hubby and I have not been to a meeting or associating in any way for 2 years now, we get shunned for that!how awful!!!!!!!!!!!
Anyhow, this x dub and his never-been-a-dub wife...............he left his dub wife (can't blame him really)...........are people we enjoy spending time with. After hubby and I left the borg we have got together a few times and shared wine, laughter and stories of how the WTS has hurt us.
Tonight I got a call from his wife inviting us to his surprise birthday dinner at a fantastic restaurant on the weekend. Of course we accepted and then his wife proceeded to tell us who would be there. She rattled off the name of this person, that person and then she said his son's name!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG. I asked if he was still in the borg because if he is still going to meetings and being a dub would he be going to his father's birthday party and taking his dub girlfriend????????????? Oh yes, he is still an active dub but she said he and the girlfriend have gone to other birthdays parties, fence sitter is how she described him.
Well................good for him. I'm looking forward to seeing him but more than that I can't wait to see his face when he sees us there, after all he wouldn't be expecting dubs there right? And hubby and I aren't DF'ed or DA'ed so we shouldn't be there either..........HA, HA, HA LOL. It should be very funny.
But on a serious note, my hubby studied with this guy when he was a young boy. He looked up to him. So he will talk to him about things if the opportunity comes up. Who knows what effect it will have on him. After all he is 'weak' according to the dubs..........which means he may be opening his mind up to other thoughts.
Anyhow, I'm excited about seeing him and having a good time. Besides, who doesn't love a good birthday party???????
Cheers, Bliss