JW Ex-firefighter dies after "blink-of-the-eye" crash

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  • Elsewhere
    Elsewhere

    Ex-firefighter dies after "blink-of-the-eye" crash

    By Cara Solomon
    Seattle Times Eastside bureau

    After 26 years in the Seattle Fire Department and several years of semi-retirement, Richard Friedt was back in uniform, working as a motorcycle escort for private funeral processions.

    He was helping others again, directing traffic Saturday, trying to smooth the way for those in mourning.

    But in a blink, a brown Cadillac in the funeral procession clipped Friedt's motorcycle, sending it crashing into oncoming traffic. Friedt, 57, suffered a severe head injury.

    "The combination of the two impacts sent the bike tumbling," said Deanna Nollette, spokeswoman for the Seattle Police Department.

    News of the accident brought some 80 family members and friends to Harborview Medical Center's intensive-care unit. They ranged from firefighters, to members of the motorcade, to congregants from the Friedt family's church in Shoreline.

    "We had to continually usher people away from the bed," said David Crook, a son-in-law who spoke on behalf of the family yesterday.

    Shortly before 10 p.m. Saturday, his family decided to turn off life support, and Friedt died.

    Friedt, of Shoreline, is survived by his wife of 35 years, Linda; six children, including a teenage daughter; and three grandchildren.

    "It was really a blink-of-the-eye tragedy," Crook said.

    The accident happened near the intersection of 23rd Avenue and Judkins Street in South Seattle. The driver of the Cadillac was questioned by police and released.

    Born in Burien, Friedt graduated from Highline High School and spent three years in the Navy before he settled into a career as a firefighter. He crisscrossed the city during his career, his family said, serving in nearly every stationhouse in Seattle. He retired as a lieutenant from Station 24 in Seattle's North End.

    As the father of five daughters and a son, Friedt could come across as protective and sometimes intimidating. But he also had a streak of mischief.

    He was particularly fond of handing out one-line pearls of wisdom. The family called them "Rick-isms." They ranged from the sweet ? "Take your time leaving, but hurry back" ? to the sarcastic ? "Don't let the door hit you on your way out."

    Sometimes they left the family laughing; sometimes relatives wondered what on earth he meant. "One of his philosophies in life was that when somebody's pushing your buttons, change your buttons," Crook said. "I haven't fully figured that one out yet."

    As a Jehovah's Witness, Friedt stood somewhat apart from the other firefighters. He had the respect of his colleagues, his family said. But he was not spared firehouse teasing: Because he did not celebrate holidays such as Christmas, colleagues nicknamed him "No Treat Friedt."

    Friedt and his wife had been active members in the Shoreline Congregation of Jehovah's Witnesses for about three decades. Friedt was an elder there, a distinction given to the most active and learned among the congregation.

    Duane Sheff, a close friend, said the Friedt family was known as the community's "welcome wagon."

    "Strangers, people who needed help, they always seemed to gravitate to the Friedt home for some reason or other," said Sheff, who began as Friedt's Bible-study partner more than 30 years ago.

    "You never knew who you were going to run into over at that house."

    Cara Solomon: 206-464-2024 or [email protected]

  • candidlynuts
    candidlynuts

    sounds like he was a good person.. very sad

  • Elsewhere
    Elsewhere

    Yep... amazing how you can be here one instant and the next something like that happens. You never know... don't waste the time you have.

    Think about it... if you live to 75 you only get about 27400 days.

  • Golf
    Golf

    Sad news. He seems to be a person that would not take a back seat to anyone, elder or no elder. I've always admired firefighters. Look what happened to the fireman at the WTC. H e must have escaped death many times while on duty and this happens to him, very very disheartening news.

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  • gitasatsangha
    gitasatsangha

    My dad was a firefighter, and I knew another witness that was a firefighter, so I opened this page with some trepidation. Sad that this man died. Hope he finds the afterlife to be even better then what he expected.

  • jimbob
    jimbob

    I personally knew Rick Friedt for a long time. My wife and I were in the same hall as him for several years. We used to live pretty close until we sold our home and moved to a different area. Rick was a very nice guy. He was an odd elder (what elder isn't...:) who had some weird ideas, but he was a very generous person...much more so than the average JW. He retired from the fire department early on disability...which is another story in itself. From what I was told....after he retired on disability, the fire department realized his disability wasn't so much of a disability. At least in this area, if a firefighter retires on disability, they get a pension worth 80% of their wages, but normal retirement is only 50%. And he still had 5 mouths to feed at home...so that's why he was working part-time to supplement his income. Going from a full income, to only 80% then to 50% is quite a loss of money. He worked in the past as a security guard, but since he had always rode motorcycles as a hobby, he started working funeral processions.

    I feel horrible for his family. The congo he was in has had numerous deaths over the past decade...many of them from cancer. (That's another story too....because they've had mold and mildew in that hall for years and years and never took care of the problem..don't know if it's related to the cancer deaths or not...it's been suggested by some in that hall)

    Anyway, that's Rick Friedt in a nutshell. The wife and I haven't decided whether or not we will attend his memorial. We know pretty much everybody in the area, and they all know we left the borg...so they don't talk to us. I'm sure it will be either this weekend or the next.

  • Elsewhere
    Elsewhere

    http://www.komotv.com/stories/32364.htm

    Family Mourns Retired Firefighter Killed In Funeral Procession

    July 27, 2004

    By Kevin Reece

    SEATTLE - "We always understood that something could happen."

    That's how Linda Friedt described the understanding she and her husband Rick had about his 25-year career as a Seattle firefighter.

    But that something didn't happen during his tenure on the force. It happened this past weekend eight years after he retired.

    The 57-year-old retired firefighter was working as a motorcycle escort in a funeral procession -- a job he's held for the last four years.

    One of the cars in that procession suddenly changed lanes, forcing Friedt into oncoming traffic and another car. He died from head injuries Saturday afternoon.

    At his home in Shoreline Monday, his large family began to gather to deal with this unexpected goodbye. He was the father of six children. He had three grandchildren including a very attached 2-year-old boy.

    "What was sad was Sunday when he was here he saw me came right up and hugged me," said Linda of her grandson. "But he was wandering around the house and we knew what he was wandering and looking for."

    What this firefighter's family is looking for now is a way to handle their sudden loss. His children are remembering a devoted father.

    "I do want to say he was an awesome father and (he) always loved us deeply," said his daughter Michelle.

    "And that takes a lot for a guy with six kids," said his daughter Lisa. "You never felt like he loved one more than the other. He didn't love you as much as the rest. He was able to spread it out for everybody."

    His family describes Friedt as a man who gave of himself as a father, a firefighter, and teacher. A deeply religious and devoted Jehovah's Witness he was married to his wife Linda for 35 years. And as we talked about her husband in their Shoreline home the phone kept ringing with friends offering their condolences.

    "Rick was known basically through the whole northwest and we're getting calls from friends all over."

    Friends who echo his wife's words that he tried to help others as a firefighter.and was still trying to help others the day he died.

    "He did his best," added Linda. "He was doing the right thing."

  • RR
    RR

    Why is it so hrad to grasp that a JW can be a FF? I've known plenty. Also knew one who was a Police Officer, granted he ddidn't have an privileges, but he was still a JW.

    RR

  • Mulan
    Mulan

    We knew Rick and Linda and their children very well. He was always in charge of First Aid at the DC and we parked our RV's behind the Tacoma Dome on the same lot for many years. We were always together with a big group after the programs. He was in the next congregation South of us, and we saw them often. Some of his children are the same age as Princess and our youngest son, Danny. It's a huge shock for us to hear this. We got the news from friends while we were on vacation.

    He was one of the really good JW's, and there are precious few of them. His wife was very outgoing and always right in the middle of things at events. The family must really be suffering.

    There were over 650 at his memorial, held at a local High School last Saturday. I might have gone to it if we had been in town. Not a KH after all.

    Seeing his picture in this thread makes me so sad.

    I think I will send a card...............or call.

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