If someone asked me to keep a secret I would keep it. Just as long as it doesn't hurt someone. I have more secrets in my head that I have forgotton them.
I never told secrets to others because I have always been betrayed by secrets told about me. And some people are really nasty and cruel. And believe it or not most of them are JW's You know how loyal they are. I have seen many hurt by others and false stories.
I never ever wanted to be known as a person who betrays a trust.
You know that scripture
Romans 12:18
If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men.
That is the motto I go by.
Love Orangefatcat.