Memory of a stupid situation

by Nosferatu 4 Replies latest jw friends

  • Nosferatu
    Nosferatu

    Another post brought this memory back to me. It's a really stupid situation which resulted in my mother ceasing communication with the next door neighbour. I believe it happened when I was in grade one.

    My mother was supposed to meet me at my elementary school. When school was dismissed, I looked for my mother. I waited, and I didn't see her. I started to get worried, but I figured she may have forgotten. I decided to do what was logical, I walked home. I tried to open the door and ring the bell, but nobody was home. So I did the next logical thing, I went to the neighbor's house. I knocked on the door and told them my situation. They invited me in and would let me wait there until my mother came home. They had 3 kids and I enjoyed playing with them.

    About 30 minutes later, my mother came to the neighbor's house and discovered that I was there. The neighbor explained my situation, but my mother started an arguement with her, and decided to never talk to her again. I was also ordered not to talk to her or play with her kids.

    I figured that this was stupid, and I approached one of the kids at school. I told them that regardless of what our parents thought, we should remain friends. Secret friends. That's exactly what I did until they moved away.

    My mother brings this up every once in a while, and tells me how wrong the neighbour was to take me in. I've tried telling her the story, but she denies that I remember anything.

    I think it's still stupid to this day.

  • iiz2cool
    iiz2cool
    I've tried telling her the story, but she denies that I remember anything.

    I think that you are probably a better judge of what you can remember than she is. Kids have better memories than many parents realize. I have some memories that go back to infancy.

    I really don't understand why your mother was upset at your neighbor.

    Walter

  • missy04
    missy04

    Was ur mom a JW at the time? Was it because she didn't want you associating with non-JW's?

  • Nosferatu
    Nosferatu

    She was a very new JW at the time. She occasionally took the neighbor's kids to the meetings.

  • Seeking Knowledge
    Seeking Knowledge

    Sounds like she might have reacted to a fear of you being "lost" and took it out on the neighbor. Maybe she was too embarrassed to set it straight after the arguement.

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