Hi,
I posted this earlier but can't find the post. Don't know if it got lost in cyber space or I'm just blind. But, I can't find it.
My sister is a JW from around 1985. I was studying on and off with them, at the same time, but asked to many probing questions and wasn't getting satisfactory answers.Then felt God led me elsewhere, where I have continued to grow in Biblical knowledge.In my church you are encouraged to prove everything the minister says to you. You're allowed to discuss, debate and disagree with any doctrine or scripture point in question.
Anyway, we are also Patriotic in our congregation. Not to the point that we put it as more important as God. But, we feel he has blessed (Here in America) us by giving us this land. So, we're thankful for it and we do love our country, although maybe not agree with all the polictics.
Some of our hymns have patriotic themes. "God Bless America" etc.
BUT, my religion also stresss that God is first in all things. But , we also know he allowed the Israelites to be patrotic towards their country, as long as they didn't adopt pagan practices to show it.
I know JW's stay out of politics and don't salute the flag etc.I can understand that they feel that's what they should do. But, when I so much as mention my love for my country, my sisters lip curls up in disgust and she says SHE has no love or loyalty to ANY country, only God. as though I put my country over God if I have a deep fondness for it. After all, it's been good to me, ( who was born here) and also my husband who was born in a third world country. He said even the middle and poorer classes here live like kings, compared to people of middle and lower class in his former country.
My sister says she doesn't consider any country to be her country . That Gods going to "smash em" all up at Armagedden anyway.
I wanted to mention to her that my other sisters son in the military, is risking his life, just so she can have the freedom to trash talk and disrespect the place that was so good to her.( She was also born on the fourth of July).
I know not all JW's are like this, but before she got in with them, she was kind, compassionate, loved her country and fellow man.
Now she seems kind of knowing and arrogant. as though "We know the truth and youuuuuu don't". Her kids are behaving the same way.
Yet, when she sufferred her nervous breakdown and her husband lost his job.They were behind in all their bills. It was I and my husband, the lowly, non JW's, who were the ones who sent her money, paid for her medication and bought her children school clothes. And took the four kids to stay with us and fed them for weeks at a time when she was ill. Few, if any helped her from her congregation. At one point when it got too much for my husband and us to handle I called her congregation and asked them if they could assist her in anyway. We lived two hours drive away.
Anyway, back to the Patiotism thread. I told my sister how I felt after she turned up her lip in disgust at my mentioning love of country ( It was around Thanksgiving) and I saw her eyes flicker in anger, but I was just not going to listen to it anymore.
Why do JW's think you can't love your country and love God too? Are all JW's taught to despise ones country? I understand not putting it before God, but why despise it?
Please explain.
dawn