I GOT KIDNAPPED part 2

by kaykay_mp 6 Replies latest jw friends

  • kaykay_mp
    kaykay_mp

    (this topic was first posted on Google Groups)

    well, not long after we got here, everyone was glad to see us
    obviously.

    Joe had not gotten much sleep because it was two days travel and he
    refused to let me drive.

    ...earlier, he was showing signs that something wasn't right. i should
    have never taken him to mexico to party. he was the one who bought
    some *ahem* party aids.

    after that he started getting psychotic. there were "ppl outside my
    window ready to kidnap" me and "old boyfriends who would show up at the
    door and kill" him.

    i kept thinking it would wear off in a few days. it happened off and
    on and we made a solemn promise not to party like that again if we
    planned to have a long term committment.

    ...now, he started saying that his mother was a clone and someone was
    going to kill me and my son, bla bla bla.

    in between trying to handle him and my son, my son almost hurt himself
    going down the stairs and we had to go the hospital. my god, he almost
    killed us getting there. i kept telling him he was fine but i just
    wanted to get him checked out, so there should be no hurry.

    while we were doing that, he called the cops so he could tell his
    "story" and he kept telling them that everyone he loved was dead. so
    the cops contacted "everyone" so, everyone had to come to the hospital.
    then we had to go downtown to get him evaluated, so now he has to stay
    "overnight" with a court date set for monday.

    as for me, i have to raise the money to get back to el paso so i can
    start school on monday. his mother told me that he needs time to "find
    himself" (which probably means i can never see him again).

    i really loved him. it took me three years to find him again, but i
    cant go through this, because his mother told me he is highly
    suseptible to mental illness and it will keep happening because its
    happened before.

    i really loved him.

    heartbroken
    kaykay_mp

  • cruzanheart
    cruzanheart

    Be careful, sweetie.

    Nina

  • cruzanheart
    cruzanheart

    If you feel you are in any danger whatsoever, PLEASE GO TO THE NEAREST WOMEN'S SHELTER. This guy doesn't sound stable, and you have your child to think of too. And if his mother was a decent sort, she'd GIVE you the money to go back to El Paso, under the circumstances.

    Nina

  • Insomniac
    Insomniac

    kaykay, that's such an awful situation! I'm glad you and your son are ok- please be careful getting home. I know how it feels to love someone who's having psychological probs- you have to look out for your own (and your son's) safety. If this sort of thing happens again, sweetie, don't go with him, please.

  • kaykay_mp
    kaykay_mp

    Guys, i'm back but it gets better!

    I'm going home.

    I wrote a short note to Joe and his mother is putting it in some belongings of his so he can read it in private.

    On the part 1 thread there was some questions about my sanity:

    I'm not that stupid. Yes, I'm a fool for love, but Joe was not in his right mind and I had to agree with him because I didn't know what he was capable of. When we got to Virginia, that's when I found out Joe was mentally ill before this.

    laters

    kaykay_mp

  • MungoBaobab
    MungoBaobab

    kay_kay, there are so few decent women out there, no woman should ever have to settle for a guy who treats her like property. Not ever. I don't know you, but I've known many women who have been abused by men, and every single one of them has extremely low self esteem, and for no reason. They're all beautiful people, as I'm sure you are too. So treat yourself like the goddess you know you are!

  • MelbaToast
    MelbaToast

    KayKay...

    what a bunch of problems...do you have enough money to get home? It sounds to me like he has some serious issues, and you need to distance yourself from him until it gets resolved.

    Please be careful.

    Melba

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