I'll admit that when I first began having doubts I thought for sure I was crazy. Once I totally didn't believe it was the truth I thought for sure I was going to die at Armageddon because my faith wasn't strong enought to understand that this was really the truth.
Since then I've gotten over those feelings and have always said I feel the witnesses are a cult. Maybe not as destructive a cult as Jim Jones, but a cult nonetheless. I must say, however, that if the GB asked the dubs to do anything, I believe the majority of them would do it without hesitation - illegal, unethical, immoral or not.
To better arm myself for dealing with my family I finally took the advice so often given here to read Hassan's books about cults. I'm halfway through Combatting Mind Control by Steve Hassan.
As I put the book aside just a couple of minutes ago I felt this amazing rush of frustration and anger. Although I've been saying it's a cult for the last year or so, it finally hit me that it IS a cult. I have read and heard evidence from an expert in the field and recognize much of what he says about cults applying to the dubs.
Before I was disappointed that my family will, in all likelihood, remain witnesses even after my eventual faded exit. Now, I feel helpless watching them be manipulated like puppets. I don't know how I'll stomach my children being involved. It already upsets me when I see them being indoctrinated, but now my frustration and anger will take on new strength.
Perhaps I shouldn't be reading the book, perhaps being ignorant and blissful that me being free was enough should have satisfied me. But, no, I want to know the real situation my family is in and the best way to help them. So even though the book(s) will be painful to read and apply I am going to do just that. It has made me more determined than ever to help my family break free.
Some of the information in Combatting applies to really culty-cults like the Moonies; but some of the paragraphs hit home with the witnesses amazingly close. Like the part about talking with former members and finding out why they left, or being able to leave without repurcussions. The books will be very beneficial to me and hopefully my family.
Thank you all for recommending them. I wish I had read them long ago.