Talk about a sad coincidence...

by TresHappy 6 Replies latest jw friends

  • TresHappy
    TresHappy

    Student sees dead father in DUI crash presentation

    10:08 PM CDT on Saturday, September 10, 2005

    Associated Press

    KNOXVILLE, Tenn. — A 12-year-old girl saw her father's remains in a gruesome photograph shown during a presentation by police warning teenagers about the dangers of drunk driving.

    The girl's mother, Marla Cabbage Higginbotham, said her daughter was traumatized by the experience at her middle school last month in which she saw her father lying in a pool of blood with a crushed skull and mutilated face and torso.

    She said the family did not know he had been drinking when he died.

    An attorney representing the mother and daughter sent a letter to the Knox County law director's office calling for an investigation.

    “Why are we showing 12-year-olds mutilated dead bodies when they can't even drive a car for four more years?” attorney Gregory P. Isaacs said Friday. The police “are good people with good intentions who have made a terrible, terrible mistake.”

    Police officers say the names of the victims about to be shown and ask if any students knew them. They called out the name of William F. Cabbage before showing pictures of the wreck.

    The girl did not recognize his name because she knew her father as Lynn Cabbage.

    When the officer said the date of the wreck, March 9, 2002, and said it was a tractor-trailer collision, she realized she was looking at her father's body, her mother said.

    Higginbotham, who works as a drug awareness educator, said she appreciates the message of the presentations but questioned its delivery.

    Knoxville Police spokesman Darrell DeBusk called the girl's experience “very unfortunate.”

    “Obviously, we wished it hadn't happened,” he said.

  • Soledad
    Soledad

    Poor child. That's horrible.

    I wonder why the officers showing this presentation have to disclose the names and dates of these accidents? Couldn't that information remain confidential?

  • talesin
    talesin

    I see no value in traumatizing children by showing them such horrendous photos. It doesn't work.

    tal

  • cruzanheart
    cruzanheart

    Schools show some weird stuff these days. A couple of years ago, when Jennie was in 4th grade, the school counselor showed a film that was supposed to keep kids from being bullies. It showed a kid who was a bully, hurt someone else's feelings, and then for some reason UNEXPLAINED BY THE VIDEO, decided to take an aerosol can and light it in front of his face, resulting in severe burns to his face. Then he got teased for his facial scars like he teased the bully.

    Well, Jennie had nightmares about that and absolutely didn't get any message about "not being a bully" out of the video. We talked to the counselor about it, naturally, and she said it was something that was shown to the whole school district! We've been careful about what school videos she sees ever since.

    I'm so sorry for the girl who saw her father. That must have been a horrible experience and I hope her mother and the school are helping her through this.

    Nina

  • misanthropic
    misanthropic

    What an awful traumatic thing for this poor young kid to have to see....... That makes me sick.

  • Es
    Es

    Thats so terrible...god im scared now what they will show when my son gets to school age????

    es

  • thom
    thom

    The films I saw in school in driver's education class were all about 30 years old at the time. I would think they have enough old video to show without showing recent stuff that people might be familiar with. Also, I was in a class specifically for driver's education and also had the opportunity to NOT view the films.
    It seems a not very well thought out presentation to me, and also a few years too early to be showing it to 12 year olds.

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