A recent thread that was started about the dubs view of remarrying in paradise reminded me of a book I read many times in high school.
The Giver by Lois Lowry
It's basically about a boy who grows up in a perfect utopian world. There's one elderly man who remembers how the real world was and he passes the truth on to the boy. There are many disturbing instances in the book that remind me so much of the dubs view of paradise. Spouses do not have sex. Instead they take a pill that removes their ''urges''. You do not pick your own career. A group of elders does that for you.
Here's a website I found with a good overview of the book. http://www.sparknotes.com/lit/giver/
I highly recommend reading this book if you haven't already.
luv, jojo