Hello, I've introduced myself in a previous post in another forum, so I'm hoping not to appear to be rude. Right now, I'm being shunned by my twin daughters, whom I love to death. I'm trying to keep busy to keep from losing my mind. They are only 18 years old. They both just started college this year. I kicked them out because they were getting so pompous and disrespectful towards me and my husband. Of course, the "brothers" jumped on this! They chose this time to tell them not to talk to me. Before I kicked them out, I made sure that they would have the things that they needed. They have a car, a place to stay, and they get money from their father's VA benefits. I, also, made sure that they each had cell phones, so that they could call me anytime that they needed to. The only call that I've gotten is one where my daughter told me that "she wasn't supposed to be talking to me anymore". I wanted them to learn about the world and what it takes to be adults, not to be overtaken by the JW organization. I could take it if I knew that they are mad at me because of kicking them out, but not because I'm not a JW. Does this make sense to anyone?
I don't want them to try to discipline me! WTF, excuse my French! I don't want to be a JW, and I don't want to be forced to be a JW. The organization couldn't get to me when I left by shunning me because they didn't have that kind of hold on me...but my kids...they know that I love them!
I just want to know that the twins are safe and doing this on their own. I may have to go ahead and go crazy on them and start kicking some doors down to find out what those children are up to.
It's just been about nine days since they moved out, but I'm going batty already!