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  Please change my username, Simon =)

  by Divergent in

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  hi simon, sorry to disturb, but i would appreciate it very much if you could kindly change my username for me - from just kidding to divergent.

  i've decided to change my username because i'm not the same person i was when i first joined this site.

  back then, a part of me still believed, and i thought that if my doubts were wrong and the religion actually turns out to be true and i posted negative stuff here... hey, i was only just kidding!!!.

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  Thanks, Simon! Just noticed the change! =)
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  One of my JW friends posted this on Facebook. Totally cringeworthy!

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  All 144,000 are on earth while the Great Multitude is in heaven

  by Doug Mason in

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  why do the 144,000 need sealing?.

  what does it mean that the angels hold back the winds so that the sealing can take place?.

  where is the great multitude?.

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  Rev 14: 4 - These are the ones who did not defile themselves with women; in fact, they are virgins

  
  

  Doug... what does this part mean to you?
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  Please change my username, Simon =)

  by Divergent in

  1. forum
  2. tech-support

  hi simon, sorry to disturb, but i would appreciate it very much if you could kindly change my username for me - from just kidding to divergent.

  i've decided to change my username because i'm not the same person i was when i first joined this site.

  back then, a part of me still believed, and i thought that if my doubts were wrong and the religion actually turns out to be true and i posted negative stuff here... hey, i was only just kidding!!!.

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  Hi Simon, sorry to disturb, but I would appreciate it very much if you could kindly change my username for me - from Just Kidding to Divergent

  I've decided to change my username because I'm not the same person I was when I first joined this site. Back then, a part of me still believed, and I thought that if my doubts were wrong and the religion actually turns out to be true and I posted negative stuff here... hey, I was only Just Kidding!!!

  Sounds stupid, right? Yeah, I know. But that was how it was

  Having being completely unbrainwashed now, I feel that it's a time for a change in my username. Why Divergent? Because I am divergent in my nature, just like Tris. She made a life-changing decision and followed her true nature - she became who she actually wanted to be instead of what others expected her to be. For me, I was expected to follow in my parents footsteps. Both of them are spiritual pillars in the congregation, my father being a long-time elder who is well known by all JW's here. Me? I was my own person. Instead of becoming a pioneer, I went for higher education! After graduating though, I tried to pioneer for a while (out of guilt), but that only lasted a few months. I went through the motions for a while after that, then discovered TTATT. My life-changing decision was to fade & become inactive, disappointing all those who had high spiritual hopes for me, especially my family. But I could not be happier now, knowing that I am following my true nature & enjoying a more meaningful life instead of living a lie!

  There's another reason why I chose Divergent as my username, but will explain that some other time

  Ok, this is a long explanation for a username change request, so I'll stop here

  Thanks in advance, Simon!
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  Found Nephew. Sisters incredible reaction.

  by umbertoecho in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i won't make this long.

  i went out again and found him.

  got in through the back door, pushed him to wake up, got him out, fed him, watered him and said he was family and i have a plan.. we talked all day, i let him do what he does, in order not to scare him about the future change that could happen for him.

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  Sorry... who's Emma? Is she your daughter?
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  The sound of a train...

  by LevelThePlayingField in

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  2. friends

  i remember hearing the sounds of the train horn blowing on january 1st 2015 and remembering, "another year and no armagedon".

  and i was so disappointed.

  i hated to hear that train whistle blow.

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  So you wanted Armageddon to come. For me though, it was the opposite. I didn't want Armageddon to come as I thought I would be screwed if it did. I wasn't enthusiastic in meetings & field service, could never engage in JW activities wholeheartedly, never could do enough to please the judgemental elders, had secret sins & prefered a "worldly" way of life... just could never be the perfect JW portrayed by the organization. Learning TTATT was the best thing that ever happened to me! I no longer fear dying at Armageddon but look to the future with confidence, whatever it may be
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  Oh the humanities...my wicked neighbor!

  by username in

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  2. humour

  i have been given a piece of birthday cake as it was his birthday yesterday!

  will i be a human hot dog now?.....

  this just got me thinking of all the stupidities of the watchtower teachings, someone very kindly offers you something as innocent as a slice of chocolate cake but we were supposed to turn it down because that peace of chocolate cake now had horns poking out the top of the chocolate frosting.

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  The bible NEVER says that celebrating birthdays is wrong. Once again, JW's have shown gross disrespect for the bible by choosing to follow absurd man-made laws which go far beyond what is written (1 Cor 4: 6)
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  Interesting YouTube Channel

  by M*A*S*H in

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  2. entertainment

  hey.. normally a lurker... but, just thought i post this link to a youtube channel i just finished watching.. please excuse if this is a re-post.

  https://www.youtube.com/channel/ucsacxq1wnzrbxdjfy2ayqsa/videos.

  a young couple's wake up spilled to the camera.. ta-ta.

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  This has been posted here before, but I'm sure it would benefit those who are new here or those who have missed it previously
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  Jws are judgmental

  by Ghiagirl in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  its funny how different i look at things now.

  i look back at myself when i was going to meetings and remember being so judgmental.

  maybe it was just me but peoples views and opinions really rubbed off on me.

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  I was brought up in "the truth." I was likewise judgemental as I had a sheltered life & "the truth" was the only thing I knew!

  Looking back, I now realize that the main reason why I was judgemental is envy. I was envious & of the freedom that "worldly" people enjoyed & became judgemental to make myself feel better. I was unhappy & only stuck to being a JW as I sincerely (and stupidly) thought it was the truth

  On the brighter side, I was like Ghiagirl & was the least judgemental in my family as I progressively learnt to discern between bullshit & reality. When I finally learned TTATT, the judgemental attitute ceased & was replaced by an overwhelming sense of peace & calm. Never felt so good in my entire life!
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  Bartender - Update 3

  by Garrett in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  sorry for long delay for update.. short story shorter - walked in way too late, she walked by, didn't say hi, i didn't say hi, she left to work, i left the bar.

  4 friends got into a huge fight and were kicked out.

  now i'll be going there alone.. to be honest, though, i think i'm just gonna pass on relationships all together.

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  Why are you giving up without actually trying?