it's with regards to disfellowshipping.. is disfellowshipping a legal procedure?
like is there something i can use to prevent this from happening to me if it does happen.. no jokes about me being a bad little boy.
i need honest answers to this.
Thanks guys for you comments and support.
i have another question:
say for example I fade. i stop going meetings, stop field service etc. so basically I'm weak or inactive. 5 months down the line, someone from the hall sees my having a cig. Would I be df'd?
it's with regards to disfellowshipping.. is disfellowshipping a legal procedure?
like is there something i can use to prevent this from happening to me if it does happen.. no jokes about me being a bad little boy.
i need honest answers to this.
@Angus beef I have had one my friends go to the elders about me before. When I asked him why he did that his answers was its a way of keeping the congregation clean. If that was me I wouldn't do anything. What I don't get is people like serial killers will have parents that still love them but smoke one cig, get drunk once, swear once and family and friends you have had all your life will just leave you. That really annoys me. Why is that?
@snare&racket you know when you try to make yourself believe something that is true? That's how I am. I have many issues with the JW lifestyle which I probably will mention later on but honestly, I would like to make my own decisions in life. Just to clarify, I am not saying everything I have learned in the truth is false. Most things make sense ahd I believe it. But right now, I want to make my own decisions.
it's with regards to disfellowshipping.. is disfellowshipping a legal procedure?
like is there something i can use to prevent this from happening to me if it does happen.. no jokes about me being a bad little boy.
i need honest answers to this.
I want to fade to be honest. I would like to be in control of my own life really.
I have another question: Say if I start fading, I start to do things that you can't do as JW. Would I still get DF'd or would the elders have to talk to me first?
it appears that many of the best music threads have been purged.
i can't imagine the formula that would eliminate such wonderousness while preserving "involuntary muscular contractions", but so it is.. the first offering.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fh2vh8jwyqa.
it's with regards to disfellowshipping.. is disfellowshipping a legal procedure?
like is there something i can use to prevent this from happening to me if it does happen.. no jokes about me being a bad little boy.
i need honest answers to this.
@KateWild thanks for that.
@Angus Beef I was asking those two questions. If she doesn't go the meetings anymore, why would people from the congregations still hang out with her.
The only thing that springs to my mind is that the friends I have at the hall, I have known them since I was very young so I have grown up with them. Has anyone got any experience of leaving but still hanging with people you have grown up with still?
@LisaRose I am 23.
@Frazzled this is an honest question.
Now guys what about conduct. If I am fading, what does my conduct have to be like?
it's with regards to disfellowshipping.. is disfellowshipping a legal procedure?
like is there something i can use to prevent this from happening to me if it does happen.. no jokes about me being a bad little boy.
i need honest answers to this.
@kate Na I'm not getting df. Just a general question.
so the best way is to fade I gather?
it's with regards to disfellowshipping.. is disfellowshipping a legal procedure?
like is there something i can use to prevent this from happening to me if it does happen.. no jokes about me being a bad little boy.
i need honest answers to this.
The only thing that is preventing me from moving away is my relationship with my rents and friends. If I leave, they won't speak to me again which is sad
it's with regards to disfellowshipping.. is disfellowshipping a legal procedure?
like is there something i can use to prevent this from happening to me if it does happen.. no jokes about me being a bad little boy.
i need honest answers to this.
Who is Miz?
it's with regards to disfellowshipping.. is disfellowshipping a legal procedure?
like is there something i can use to prevent this from happening to me if it does happen.. no jokes about me being a bad little boy.
i need honest answers to this.
@Londo when you mean fade, do you mean gradually stop going to the meetings etc?
@KateWild you mentioned that all my family and friends will shun me. I have a question, a sister in hall stopped going meetings over a year ago. She still lives in the local area but still, she still hangs out with the bros and sis sometimes. Why is that? One thing I don't really like about the truth is how the laws are different depending on the person you are. So I agree with you. Shunning is wrong. If I was a parent and I had to do that to my kid, I wouldn't be able to live with myself.
it's with regards to disfellowshipping.. is disfellowshipping a legal procedure?
like is there something i can use to prevent this from happening to me if it does happen.. no jokes about me being a bad little boy.
i need honest answers to this.
It's with regards to Disfellowshipping.
Is disfellowshipping a legal procedure? Like is there something I can use to prevent this from happening to me if it does happen.
No jokes about me being a bad little boy. I need honest answers to this. Is there a legal document that talks about shunning ? If I declare I am no longer a witness just before the elders were to talk to me, would that mean I will still get d'fd or not ?
serious answers please? This is not a trolling question.
no need for "not sure if trolling or just stupid"
