I second what Stillajwexelder wrote!!!
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Social Skills 101 for Newbies
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pettygrudger and i jokingly chatted about writing a book about this subject...maybe just a "thread" could be of help to newbies that are having problems in learning how to associate beyond jw's.. any suggestions for this new topic?.
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Chapter 23: Unconditional Love--Allow people to make their own decisions, You want them to be happy.
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Social Skills 101 for Newbies
by codeblue in.
pettygrudger and i jokingly chatted about writing a book about this subject...maybe just a "thread" could be of help to newbies that are having problems in learning how to associate beyond jw's.. any suggestions for this new topic?.
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Sorry: Yikes I mean #21
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Social Skills 101 for Newbies
by codeblue in.
pettygrudger and i jokingly chatted about writing a book about this subject...maybe just a "thread" could be of help to newbies that are having problems in learning how to associate beyond jw's.. any suggestions for this new topic?.
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Chapter 20: How to be a Friend without quoting a scripture!!!
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I have a delicious secret
by La Capra ini met a guy sunday.
there's definitely chemistry.
and we really hit it off.
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You are a "smitten kitten"...oh what a feeling!!!
That's how I felt when I met Mr. CB...lol
Enjoy,
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Social Skills 101 for Newbies
by codeblue in.
pettygrudger and i jokingly chatted about writing a book about this subject...maybe just a "thread" could be of help to newbies that are having problems in learning how to associate beyond jw's.. any suggestions for this new topic?.
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Pettygrudger and I jokingly chatted about writing a book about this subject...Maybe just a "thread" could be of help to Newbies that are having problems in learning how to associate beyond JW's.
Any suggestions for this new topic?
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SYN is SUPREME today.
by bebu insyn is quite the writer!
he's given 5000 posts and now is a supreme bean being..
congratulations!!!!.
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Congrats to you Syn oh Supreme One!!!
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Have any of you experienced this ?
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as a married jw, did your spouse ever cheat on you with another jw?
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Freelife: Thanks for you kind, caring words. I am sorry your ex wife treated you in such an unloving way. I am healing...but it takes a while. My first husband cheated with a JW and also with several "worldly" people, even though he was a JW...no conscience, no heart. After he was reinstated he married one of my study's.
Cyrus: Thanks for sharing your experience as well...
I want to add as someone raised as as a JW, I never had sex till I got married...believe it or not...it is true.
The silver lining to this story is how I met Mr. CB. He lived in Canada...far away from me. He took a road trip in the US and stopped at the restaurant where I worked. We both found out we were raised as JW's and at the same time going thru a hurtful divorce...both had spouses that don't know the meaning of : loyalty.When we first started talking, we both did not understand the concept of being UNFAITHFUL. (wow, this drew me to him almost ASAP. I had always been faithful to my husband and never understood his cheating ways.) He had been married 16 years, with 3 teenagers,. He was almost an elder when he first wife left him. He received NO support from the elder body whatsoever. I had been married almost 20 years with 2 sons. Eight months later, we were married...this March will be our 4th anniversary!
We both have had our rose colored glasses removed about the "truth"....it has been almost a year since we both started this new journey.
I want to thank all who have responded and who continue to respond to this thread. Thanks for the caring responses and I also want to share my care to those that have suffered from the same problem. Life will get better...just takes time.
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Have any of you experienced this ?
by codeblue in.
as a married jw, did your spouse ever cheat on you with another jw?
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The experience I had, really devastated me. This was suppose to be the Truth (tm)...how can this be happening here?...I guess I was spiritually naieve. (that's what happens when you are raised as a JW)
When the elders got involved they told us we associated "too much"...that caused the problem...Hmmmm...(wondering if they too had experienced this and that is why not much discipline was handed out?
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All Time FAVORITE Singer Or Band
by minimus inwho or what is your all time favorite singer or band?
even if you never saw them, if you could---you'd spend big bucks to see them.
i love anita baker.
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I too have many I enjoy:
Eagles, Fleetwood Mac, Enya, Evanessence, Creed
So much music, I enjoy variety!!!
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