Welcome days!!!
Oh boy...just WHERE do I begin? See my name over in the left hand corner? Very self explanatory. Is it really all THAT bad? That is exactly what I asked. YES for me it is. Just ask my 10 yr old son who spent most of the weekend crying off and on over his JW step-dad's utter and COMPLETE "Non-participation" in putting up the tree, his birthday and mine not being acknowledged, etc. ad nauseum. Did I have a CLUE when I married him? NO. He was born one, but had been diassimulated disassociated for almost 10yrs-safe right? WRONG! He had to go back and be reassimulated reinstated, which is almost completed. Please read my posts and topics listings under my profile and feel free to PM me. We should talk dear boy...but for now my best advice to add to the excellent posts already given is:
RUN DO NOT WALK!!!
married to da Borg Mob,
mobbie