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  In need of advice...

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  hi i am new here thank you for letting me join.

  i first of all want to say i am not here to bash the religion.

  there are good people in the congregation but also bad ones.

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  mobumpkin

  Such great advice here..the reason I am even considering going to an elder in the first place is to show her I will not tolerate her toxic behavior and the "church" is where it will hurt her the most. She would rather die then have the congregation know how she is behaving when she is not there. My mother she has tried to get thrown out of the hall because she lied and told them she talked to me all the time. Couldn't be further from the truth. I would rather her view me as being dead that would be better. She has a very strange closeness with my ex husband and they are working this hate campaign against me and now its involving my children. That is why I am so angry. I am a good person even though I don't belong to the religion anymore. She has no right to involve herself in my business.
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  16

  In need of advice...

  by mobumpkin in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  hi i am new here thank you for letting me join.

  i first of all want to say i am not here to bash the religion.

  there are good people in the congregation but also bad ones.

  1. 
  2. 
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  mobumpkin

  Hi i am new here thank you for letting me join. I first of all want to say I am not here to bash the religion. There are good people in the congregation but also bad ones. I was born and raised in the religion until the age of 32 when I was disfellowshipped not by choice but because the group of elders felt I i was not sorry enough in my heart. My family is divided some are Witnesses some are not. My mother who is elderly and my fleshly sister are however still active in the congregation. My father is not a Witness pretty much let my mother raise us in the religion. To make a long story short my sister who is still active hates me. I have never seen such hate from someone who is supposed to love Jehovah. She has made it her mission in life to make me pay and tear my whole family apart. Also treating my elderly parents poorly. Don't you think this is something the elders need to be aware of? I mean I was thrown out so why all the hatred. You go acting like a decent god fearing person but are a totally different person away from the congregation. Please someone give advice. I just want peace and to be left alone.