When you're in love, it's not just a matter of saying what's the big deal? Sure thing, I can drop them just like that.. I have to seriously consider all things, that's why I'm here, and I'm doing my best. But just to drop someone like that is no easy task.
The thought of no kids with me has made her emotionally distraught, just like I thought it would. The only conslusion I can think of is that we can have them, but not be brought up in her religion. She has since agreed to this, and seems to be more happy about things. After all we've talked about how her religion doesn't teach what the really bible teaches and all the deceit and lies that are told to try to force people believing things, and how me the kids Dad would be told is a Satan worshiper and will be horribly killed at Armageddon, she realizes that it would be better to bring them up in my religion. With the caveat that they don't celebrate Christmas, mostly no tree/decorations except they are allowed to get and open presents on Christmas day (I'm not sure how else she thinks we celebrate it, maybe bowing down to the Christmas tree or something lol), I can live with that. A lot of people don't bother with a tree/decoartions, I never cared. Also, she doesn't want me teaching them the trinity. Again, in church, this isn't something that's really talked about all that much, at least not the word.
It was actually quite funny, (I'm not interested in debating doctrine here) but I got her to basically describe who Jesus is, how he is God, but also the Son, but not the Father, and there is only one God etc basically she explained her belief as being the trinity but is still dead set against the idea of the trinity lol. Go figure.