Posts by goingthruthemotions

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Need advice: Intimacy with my wife almost non existint because she considers me an apostate

by goingthruthemotions in

just on of the perks of being an apostate who is married to a branwashed, blinded jw woman.

you know, we have been married for ~27 years....most of which we had nothing to do with the piece of shite cult.

up till the begining of 2014 was when i woke up.

goingthruthemotions

i know that some have mentioned talking to an elder...but, i will not give any elder that kind of power over me or my family.

i would rather talk with a professional therapist.

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Just had a former elder friend tell me, “This Overlapping generation is crap.

by John Aquila in

last night i ran into a former elder friend, he is in his late 70s.

he asked how i was doing and i asked how he was doing.

then out of the blue he tells me; .

goingthruthemotions

my eyes were fully open when i heard the first explination....it's just nonsense.

My wife lacks the reasoning ability to see that the overlapping generation teaching is all crap. but, i still support her. my kids know it's all crap has well.

GTTM

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Need advice: Intimacy with my wife almost non existint because she considers me an apostate

by goingthruthemotions in

just on of the perks of being an apostate who is married to a branwashed, blinded jw woman.

you know, we have been married for ~27 years....most of which we had nothing to do with the piece of shite cult.

up till the begining of 2014 was when i woke up.

goingthruthemotions

All the advice i get here is truely helpful.

i know that i am only mentioning the sex part of the relationship...but to me it is the foundation of a healthy relationship and marriage.

it creates intimacy, it creates trust, it creates love....this is the reason so many marriages fail in my opinion.

sex is what drives man kind....it is a beatiful gift from Jesus....the definition of love. you could call it what you want and spin how you want. make it a vulgar thing, make it a beatiful thing. but, make no mistake. it is what makes the world go round!!!!!!!!!!!!! it is whats make marriages work and fail.

if god's willing i will be partaking in sex into my 80's and 90's!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

like the saying goes....make love not war. and least of all F%CK the Watchtower!!!!!!!!

and BTW i would never force my wife to have sex with me nor use the bible to that advantage. it's no fun when the other person is not into it.

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Need advice: Intimacy with my wife almost non existint because she considers me an apostate

by goingthruthemotions in

just on of the perks of being an apostate who is married to a branwashed, blinded jw woman.

you know, we have been married for ~27 years....most of which we had nothing to do with the piece of shite cult.

up till the begining of 2014 was when i woke up.

goingthruthemotions

i do think she is withholding sex from me has a tool to her advantage in some ways...the other thing is a mental battle within herself. me being an apostate and her trying to come to terms with the fact that if she wants to sleep with the enemy.

has far has sex goes...i have alot of male vitality. so has far has sowing my oats, it's pretty much a desire i have.

don't know how else to put it.

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Need advice: Intimacy with my wife almost non existint because she considers me an apostate

by goingthruthemotions in

just on of the perks of being an apostate who is married to a branwashed, blinded jw woman.

you know, we have been married for ~27 years....most of which we had nothing to do with the piece of shite cult.

up till the begining of 2014 was when i woke up.

goingthruthemotions

LOL....after reading my post, i realize how many miss-spellings i have and incoherent sentences i wrote. Sorry about that....i do have a degree in Engineering. So i guess writing coherent sentences is not a requirement.

Simon, when is that spell checker going to be fixed?

I was also very upset when i wrote it.....Bottom line is this. Now i am going thru the motions in my marriage. I despise this cult!!!!!!

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Need advice: Intimacy with my wife almost non existint because she considers me an apostate

by goingthruthemotions in

just on of the perks of being an apostate who is married to a branwashed, blinded jw woman.

you know, we have been married for ~27 years....most of which we had nothing to do with the piece of shite cult.

up till the begining of 2014 was when i woke up.

goingthruthemotions

Thanks all my friends!!!!

when i read about relationships that are just like mine because of the cult...i am taken back. why? because the indoctrinated response is a scary thing to see happen when people are thousands of miles away from eachother.

i could only image how many wives threw away their yoga pants after ATM gave his talk.

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Need advice: Intimacy with my wife almost non existint because she considers me an apostate

by goingthruthemotions in

just on of the perks of being an apostate who is married to a branwashed, blinded jw woman.

you know, we have been married for ~27 years....most of which we had nothing to do with the piece of shite cult.

up till the begining of 2014 was when i woke up.

goingthruthemotions

i ment to point the therapist at me. not her, she has never had nor will ever have a therepist....because she doesn't have a problems. and all the answers are found in the bible or the uneducated elders.

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Need advice: Intimacy with my wife almost non existint because she considers me an apostate

by goingthruthemotions in

just on of the perks of being an apostate who is married to a branwashed, blinded jw woman.

you know, we have been married for ~27 years....most of which we had nothing to do with the piece of shite cult.

up till the begining of 2014 was when i woke up.

goingthruthemotions

StarTrekAngel i have a counselor i have seen in the past about the issues with our marriage. she has one been once in the past and she determined that the issues are with me and she has no issues.

unfortunately the counselor has no cult experience...so it's hard for them to understand the mind of a brainwashed witness.

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Need advice: Intimacy with my wife almost non existint because she considers me an apostate

by goingthruthemotions in

just on of the perks of being an apostate who is married to a branwashed, blinded jw woman.

you know, we have been married for ~27 years....most of which we had nothing to do with the piece of shite cult.

up till the begining of 2014 was when i woke up.

goingthruthemotions

Thanks everyone for you support, like OTWO said...she won't go to a counselor. in her mind i am the one with the problem.

i just don't know what to do anymore....i just am not allowed to live a normal life without reprocussion of my changed mind about the cult. like stuart said in the ARC...it's a captive organizaiton.

this truely sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Are you angry for having been a JW?

by Half banana in

i remember seeing the ex-jws parading around outside the assembly like lepers holding placards of hate.

we were the righteous and enlightened ones... and they were lost in outer darkness.

just dont look at them was the standard response to their unwelcome presence..

goingthruthemotions

You have no idea how angry i am that i made the biggest mistake of my life!!!! i have taken so much from my children and have lost my wife to a new a brainwashed wife.

it sucks so much....i wish i could turn back time. it is only a matter of time before my marriage is ruined by this cult.