Thanks all, i love this site. i have talked with both our sons about the bad parts of the borg. i will take him to the b-day party.
i just sit and wait for the hammer to drop. it will only drop 2 ways.
1. she will want a divorce because i am an apostate.
2. she will see the borg for what it is ( a cult) and has my youner son says. she and we will drift away from the cult.
i know am betting on option 1. but, the hammer will drop and we will be nothing more than another watchtower statistic.