I am so sorry to hear this....my wife is also very blind. I don't even bring anything BORG up. I truely hate this cult and what it does to people.
My kids hate it and so do I....i feel if i push the enevelope it will cause us to break up or maybe not. I am not willing to go there.
we have been going to less and less meetings...YAHOO!!!!. she doesn't say much about it and we don't go out on field circus. very rarely. she is a stay at home mom and if she really wanted to she could go out everyday. it seems like she makes up excuses not to and i don't question her about it. just leave it alone.
i just wish it would go away.....good luck to you and take it one day at a time.