Posts by goingthruthemotions

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I found a list my Wife is makingof subjects i have told her about the BORG.

by goingthruthemotions in

so me and my wife have not been on speaking terms for about 5 weeks, and when we do .

talk…it is arguing about the jw cult and more of a barrage from me telling here all the stuff i have learned.

i know i shouldn't do this....but, i get so freaking p.o ed aobut what this cult has done to my family.

goingthruthemotions

Thanks Chook, i have resolved to just keep my mouth shut. i cant tell her anything i have not already told her.

she will never wakeup. she believes water is thicker than blood.

i hate this cult

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I found a list my Wife is makingof subjects i have told her about the BORG.

by goingthruthemotions in

so me and my wife have not been on speaking terms for about 5 weeks, and when we do .

talk…it is arguing about the jw cult and more of a barrage from me telling here all the stuff i have learned.

i know i shouldn't do this....but, i get so freaking p.o ed aobut what this cult has done to my family.

goingthruthemotions

So me and my wife have not been on speaking terms for about 5 weeks, and when we do

Talk…it is arguing about the jw cult and more of a barrage from me telling here all the stuff I have learned. i know i shouldn't do this....but, i get so freaking P.O ed aobut what this cult has done to my family. and why? because i choose not to believe what taught my men

Please understand normally, by this time I will work hard at getting past this and get back to a normal life. The problem with this is

…it’s always me making the effort. She never tries, I guess I am waiting and hoping she will fight for her family and marriage

I doubt it though, the cult control is too deep.

Anyways, I was snooping in my wife tablet, just wanted to see what she was looking at. I came across some notes that were written on the

10-13-16 in the notes section. Below are the items she had written down, as i mentioned these are items i have brought up to her.

Ink horn doctrine change
Baserean to change soon? not sure what she meant by this.
beth Sarim
No where in the bible does it mention overlapping generation
JW publication propaganda, mans thoughts
Should only read the bible not publications or JW bible
Ausralian world commission investigation, why don’t JW’s know about it.
Must partake of emblems according to John 6-7
JW’s not Christians
JW’s teach that Christ only savior for 144,00 not all (based on worldwide security under the prince of peace bk0
If JW’s are guided by Jah’s Holy spirit why so many changes ( I never told her this, not sure this came from)
Jw instill FOG ( fear, obligation, guilt)
Was never baptized in the name of the father , son and Holy spirit
JW organization is a 503c

Now keep in mind, these are all the thing I have brought up to her. So what I am thinking is she is gathering data to use against me for a separation or divorce.

Maybe something she could show the Kangaroo court. Or she is making a list so she could do research, but has long as we been together, she has never showed

An aptitiude to make a list and do research. So my question is, why do you all thinks the list is for.

I don’t know, but what I do know is this….this cult has really destroyed my family and marriage.

GTTM

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need input: My older son has an interesting theory as to why my wife has her head in a watchtower 90% of the time

by goingthruthemotions in

i am still having issues with my still in wife.

my two son's and i don't want anything to do with the cult.

our marriage is a battle ground all the time.

goingthruthemotions

i get what you are saying on that subject. right now it is just so frustrating. but, with her being so brainwashed, she doesn't have the mental capacity to even understand any doctrinal information. she is smart in alot of things, but when it comes to this, all mental capacity goes out the window.

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need input: My older son has an interesting theory as to why my wife has her head in a watchtower 90% of the time

by goingthruthemotions in

i am still having issues with my still in wife.

my two son's and i don't want anything to do with the cult.

our marriage is a battle ground all the time.

goingthruthemotions

Hi Prologos, unfortunately that doesn't work. i have tried to show her the inconsistancies, she is just so brain washed that she doesn't want to hear it.

i wish she would question her beliefs, this sucks so much!!! i hate this cult !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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need input: My older son has an interesting theory as to why my wife has her head in a watchtower 90% of the time

by goingthruthemotions in

i am still having issues with my still in wife.

my two son's and i don't want anything to do with the cult.

our marriage is a battle ground all the time.

goingthruthemotions

I am still having issues with my still in wife. My two son's and i don't want anything to do with the cult. our marriage is a battle ground all the time. lately i don't even talk with her no sleep in the same bed. Strangers living in the same house.

she knows exactly how i feel about the borg, i have told her many things: ARC, united nations, Beth Sarim, showed her the prince of peace book where it says the jesus is the mediator only for the 144,000, you name it i have told her plenty of apostate stuff.

the suprising part is i feel none of this is making a dent.

she treats me and our sons like shit, not affectionate (not that she really ever was...i blame on being brought up in a cult)

Anyways, My older son came and said. " have you noticed lately that mom is always reading a watchtower and jw stuff, and i said yeah and i hate it. he said, do you think she is doing this because all the stuff you told her and me telling her i don't agree with the religion is making her question her beliefs?"

i said, i don't think so. i believe she is getting deeper and deeper because as a family we don't want nothing to do with the cult.

but, what do you all think.

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What is it going to take for her to wake up? 2016 convention was the biggest display of B.I.T.E

by goingthruthemotions in

so i went to the convention this past weekend.

not, because i wanted to....but, because i had no choice.. i took myself and our son's out walking every chance i had, i made it so we missed the bunker video, the drama, the stupid dream squashing video with the violin.. but, while in there sitting.

one of the speakers said this:.

goingthruthemotions

Hi All,

So i went to the convention this past weekend. not, because i wanted to....but, because i had no choice.

i took myself and our son's out walking every chance i had, i made it so we missed the bunker video, the drama, the stupid dream squashing video with the violin.

but, while in there sitting. one of the speakers said this:

water is thicker than blood and then went on to talk about how your dedication to the borg is more important than your family.

i just got up and walked out. I am so done with this B.S!! she is never going to wake up. I really don't know what going to happen to our marriage.

She drank every bit up like cool-aid!!!!!!!!

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Why Are You Here?

by Believer in

i'm wondering why believers remain members of this forum which is clearly hostile to believers.

as one member said, nonbelievers pounce on any semblance of belief like piranhas on prey.

as former jws we should have had our fill of judgmental know-it-alls, but here we are.

goingthruthemotions

Because i hate the Jehovah witness borganization!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and the LYING, FILTHY DISGUSTING, MING CONTROLLING, SMALL PENIS GOVERNING BODY!!!!!!!!!

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hidden image: JwFairyTales 5: teh end of this System of Things

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so i sometimes go back and look at jw fairtales videos.

he such a good story teller and his video are heartfelt.. anyways i saw a hidden image at the 37:04 point.

does anyone know what book this is from?.

goingthruthemotions

a skull face. look at the video and stop at 37:04

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Should I stay married to my JW wife

by gatorguy in

me and my wife were at the beach the other day and i finally told her, i don't think i believe in god anymore.

i fessed up to the fact that it started with me doubting some jw beliefs and then it just led me to this point where i don't even believe in god.

i wouldn't say that i even have a negative view towards jw's or religion in general.

goingthruthemotions

i agree with crazyguy....just sit and wait it out.

thats what i have been doing. my situation is different.

married 25 yrs, 2 teen, alot invested, alot to lose.

like they say, its cheaper to keep her.

you do what feels right...but sometime waiting and seeing is good to. but, don't wait to long.

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hidden image: JwFairyTales 5: teh end of this System of Things

by goingthruthemotions in

so i sometimes go back and look at jw fairtales videos.

he such a good story teller and his video are heartfelt.. anyways i saw a hidden image at the 37:04 point.

does anyone know what book this is from?.

goingthruthemotions

So i sometimes go back and look at JW fairtales videos. he such a good story teller and his video are heartfelt.

Anyways i saw a hidden image at the 37:04 point. Does anyone know what book this is from?

and WTF....I HATE THIS CULT. no wonder my wife is so screwed up with JW fear.

this is the video:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xtb2Q6vDS74