I would like to get some feed back from POMO's who's spouse is still PIMI.
Since Myself and our son's left the JW cult. My wife has been M.I.A has a mom and a wife. Ours Son's don't really have a connection to her. In fact our youngest son's said he doesn't consider her a mom and our older son just doesn't care.
In reality she doesn't care about us. More often then not she just spends her time in our bedroom ignoring us. And When she isn't all she does is bitch at the boys and always finds an excuse to be angry with me.
I have told her many times that if she is not happy she should leave and go find her JW elder so she could be happy.
As a wife she has no love, Very heartless.
She wasn't always like this for 19 years everything was good. in 2008 got involved and in 2013 me and the boys left. I was hoping she would leave with us. But, no...The cult had to strong of a strangle hold on her. You see once we joined the cult I saw a change and when we left that change was worse.
I have noticed she lives in fear. I don't think she sleeps good because she is always afraid of the end to come. I think she thinks if she sleeps that the end will come and she will not be ready. What a mind screw.
None of her fleshy sister or brother are JW's. It was just her and her mom. Her mom died a brainwashed witness. It also seems that when her mom died she became worse.
I wish i had my old wife back, but that train left the station. I just don't know when to say that's it and move on and leave her to her cult. I have worked so hard all my life to give her a good life. This sucks so much.