I agree with humbled - this thread can be good without the need for diatribes.
So here's my opinion, for what it's worth: it's just not worth it for any of us to try to help muslims see organised religion for what it is.
Islam needs reforming but only muslims can do this. Likewise, whatever muslims truly believe, they'll have to figure this out for themselves in their own way. Until Islam is tamed like Christianity, it's best to let them get on with it, IMO.