“Billyblobber”: Yes I definitely believe that, as you said in the last paragraph of your initial post in this thread, we should “approach spirituality as individuals.” Spirituality is really a journey for each individual to travel and explore him/herself, and it’s not something that should be institutionalized (i.e., organized religion), and certainly not something that should be arbitrarily codified, dictated and forced on anyone or group.
“Apognophos”: “Emotions are the enemy of reason, are they not? . . . If someone wants to make decisions in a clear-thinking way, then they should rely on reason. Leave emotions for the things that aren't life-changing decisions, . . .”
“jgnat”: “I'm not entirely convinced that spirituality makes us any better at these things.”
Actually, science has proven that the brain is not just all intellect or all emotion – what we perceive as our conscious existence is the sum total of various processes for different types of functioning in the brain, which include things like fear, aggression, well-being, empathy, etc. (“emotion”), as well as the logical cognitive faculties such as sensual perception, memory, differentiation, prioritization, decision-making, etc. (“reason”). They do, and must, exist in tandem. The end result is, as the expression goes: “The total is greater than the sum of its parts.” Our consciousness, as such, is an emergent phenomenon consisting of all the various properties found in the various lobes and structures within the brain, all operating as a whole.
Spirituality is the emergent driving force, contingent upon all the multi-faceted logical, as well as primal emotive, properties which make up who and what we are – a driving force compelling us to investigate, explore, categorize, organize, enjoy, and share things in our collective environment. It is the higher-order logistical functioning which acts to express our fundamental ideals, communicate our ideas, and perform our actions in a manner which promotes social interactions with each other and with society as a whole that are advantageous and mutually beneficial. In short, spirituality is that which causes desired and beneficial thought, well-being, and action which is beneficial to oneself and the general community. It is that which promotes universal and fundamental ideals for the greater good and well-being of the unique individual and of society as a whole.