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Will my inactive JW bring our children up as a witness?

by stevepill in

i have been with an in active jw for 6 years, she now wants to marry and have a child, will she want to bring a child up as a witness, she says not but any experiences?

will she start go back once we are married?

(i'm a non jw)

Will my inactive JW bring our children up as a witness?

by stevepill in

i have been with an in active jw for 6 years, she now wants to marry and have a child, will she want to bring a child up as a witness, she says not but any experiences?

will she start go back once we are married?

(i'm a non jw)

Will my inactive JW bring our children up as a witness?

by stevepill in

i have been with an in active jw for 6 years, she now wants to marry and have a child, will she want to bring a child up as a witness, she says not but any experiences?

will she start go back once we are married?

(i'm a non jw)

stevepill

She has no regular contact with any Jw's either.

Theres no guarantees in life, I have friend who has 6 kids and had model family, his wife cheated on him then she ended up trying to hang herself and became a Cochin addict, she showed no signs of this before, so life's not guaranteed I suppose.

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Will my inactive JW bring our children up as a witness?

by stevepill in

i have been with an in active jw for 6 years, she now wants to marry and have a child, will she want to bring a child up as a witness, she says not but any experiences?

will she start go back once we are married?

(i'm a non jw)

stevepill

I'm trying to turn this on its head a bit, here goes. She's told me she doesn't want go back as she doesn't like people telling her she can or cannot do something. She also tells me she doesn't want to bring up a child as a witness. In six years she has never attended more than twice a year and never never really talks about her faith. I have had to take it back to basics but I cannot ask much more, you can only go with what you know now sometimes not what might happen. Maybe being in the middle ground is where she will stay, me trying to push her is just as bad as the Jw telling her what to do, I could leave the COC book with her and the offer of my help, maybe one day she will get curious. I think by me pushing her for an answer now it's making it worse. I have asked her to just be honest and open with me as marriage would be nothing without this and communication is key.

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Will my inactive JW bring our children up as a witness?

by stevepill in

i have been with an in active jw for 6 years, she now wants to marry and have a child, will she want to bring a child up as a witness, she says not but any experiences?

will she start go back once we are married?

(i'm a non jw)

stevepill

I value your input but she thought we were over months ago so I suppose she was looking for other options I suppose. You is driving me insane love is a bad drug sometimes.

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Will my inactive JW bring our children up as a witness?

by stevepill in

i have been with an in active jw for 6 years, she now wants to marry and have a child, will she want to bring a child up as a witness, she says not but any experiences?

will she start go back once we are married?

(i'm a non jw)

stevepill

Thank you paul

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Will my inactive JW bring our children up as a witness?

by stevepill in

i have been with an in active jw for 6 years, she now wants to marry and have a child, will she want to bring a child up as a witness, she says not but any experiences?

will she start go back once we are married?

(i'm a non jw)

stevepill

Also said not going to read COC book, will never be against Jw but also doesn't want to be part of it.

not willing to study as it might turn her against Jw.

said I need to trust her, I do trust her as she is now she's an amazing women, but will she change if she goes back is the question, running out of time.

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Will my inactive JW bring our children up as a witness?

by stevepill in

i have been with an in active jw for 6 years, she now wants to marry and have a child, will she want to bring a child up as a witness, she says not but any experiences?

will she start go back once we are married?

(i'm a non jw)

stevepill

Sorry miss print, says she does not want to bring child up as a witness.

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Will my inactive JW bring our children up as a witness?

by stevepill in

i have been with an in active jw for 6 years, she now wants to marry and have a child, will she want to bring a child up as a witness, she says not but any experiences?

will she start go back once we are married?

(i'm a non jw)

stevepill

Just been to talk to her she said, she does not want to talk about it as she's in good place at moment in her mind, doesn't want to go back in her mind now as happy doing what she wants, when asked to talk about why not want to go back. but can't say def as does not know how she will feel in 10 years time. But none of us can say what will happen in 10 years I suppose.

Says she no longer feels guilty about sex before marriage and does not want to bring up as a witness. Says she's switched of from pleasing parents as they already know what she's done.

Says they would not come to her wedding if she married a non Jw.

also discussed if she moves on after me, said she will not tell them, just say that Xmas and birthdays are not for her.

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Will my inactive JW bring our children up as a witness?

by stevepill in

i have been with an in active jw for 6 years, she now wants to marry and have a child, will she want to bring a child up as a witness, she says not but any experiences?

will she start go back once we are married?

(i'm a non jw)

stevepill

I'm shortly going to drop by her apartment to give her some post and her belongings, not sure if it's a good idea but need closure on this. I've written a letter to offer my help so if she refuses I can then say I've done every possible thing I can do for her and wish her the best for the future. I have ordered her the COC book as recommended so hopefully she might read it one day. Thanks to you all.