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  Will my inactive JW bring our children up as a witness?

  by stevepill in

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  i have been with an in active jw for 6 years, she now wants to marry and have a child, will she want to bring a child up as a witness, she says not but any experiences?

  will she start go back once we are married?

  (i'm a non jw)

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  stevepill

  I value your input but she thought we were over months ago so I suppose she was looking for other options I suppose.  You is driving me insane love is a bad drug sometimes.
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  Will my inactive JW bring our children up as a witness?

  by stevepill in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i have been with an in active jw for 6 years, she now wants to marry and have a child, will she want to bring a child up as a witness, she says not but any experiences?

  will she start go back once we are married?

  (i'm a non jw)

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  stevepill

  Thank you paul
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  Will my inactive JW bring our children up as a witness?

  by stevepill in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i have been with an in active jw for 6 years, she now wants to marry and have a child, will she want to bring a child up as a witness, she says not but any experiences?

  will she start go back once we are married?

  (i'm a non jw)

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  stevepill

  Also said not going to read COC book, will never be against Jw but also doesn't want to be part of it.

  not willing to study as it might turn her against Jw.

  said I need to trust her, I do trust her as she is now she's an amazing women, but will she change if she goes back is the question, running out of time.
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  Will my inactive JW bring our children up as a witness?

  by stevepill in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i have been with an in active jw for 6 years, she now wants to marry and have a child, will she want to bring a child up as a witness, she says not but any experiences?

  will she start go back once we are married?

  (i'm a non jw)

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  stevepill

  Sorry miss print, says she does not want to bring child up as a witness.
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  Will my inactive JW bring our children up as a witness?

  by stevepill in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i have been with an in active jw for 6 years, she now wants to marry and have a child, will she want to bring a child up as a witness, she says not but any experiences?

  will she start go back once we are married?

  (i'm a non jw)

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  stevepill

  Just been to talk to her she said, she does not want to talk about it as she's in good place at moment in her mind, doesn't want to go back in her mind now as happy doing what she wants, when asked to talk about why not want to go back. but can't say def as does not know how she will feel in 10 years time. But none of us can say what will happen in 10 years I suppose.

  Says she no longer feels guilty about sex before marriage and does not want to bring up as a witness. Says she's switched of from pleasing parents as they already know what she's done. 

  Says they would not come to her wedding if she married a non Jw.

  also discussed if she moves on after me, said she will not tell them, just say that Xmas and birthdays are not for her.
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  Will my inactive JW bring our children up as a witness?

  by stevepill in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i have been with an in active jw for 6 years, she now wants to marry and have a child, will she want to bring a child up as a witness, she says not but any experiences?

  will she start go back once we are married?

  (i'm a non jw)

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  stevepill

  I'm shortly going to drop by her apartment to give her some post and her belongings, not sure if it's a good idea but need closure on this. I've written a letter to offer my help so if she refuses I can then say I've done every possible thing I can do for her and wish her the best for the future. I have ordered her the COC book as recommended so hopefully she might read it one day. Thanks to you all.
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  Will my inactive JW bring our children up as a witness?

  by stevepill in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i have been with an in active jw for 6 years, she now wants to marry and have a child, will she want to bring a child up as a witness, she says not but any experiences?

  will she start go back once we are married?

  (i'm a non jw)

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  stevepill

  I'm blown away by your support, this is what life's all about supporting each other, not shunning or dismissing each other thank you again. So much to take in!
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  Will my inactive JW bring our children up as a witness?

  by stevepill in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i have been with an in active jw for 6 years, she now wants to marry and have a child, will she want to bring a child up as a witness, she says not but any experiences?

  will she start go back once we are married?

  (i'm a non jw)

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  stevepill

  Your right honesty, your right........
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  Will my inactive JW bring our children up as a witness?

  by stevepill in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i have been with an in active jw for 6 years, she now wants to marry and have a child, will she want to bring a child up as a witness, she says not but any experiences?

  will she start go back once we are married?

  (i'm a non jw)

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  stevepill

  Thank you for your time I appreciate it, it's really helped.
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  Will my inactive JW bring our children up as a witness?

  by stevepill in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i have been with an in active jw for 6 years, she now wants to marry and have a child, will she want to bring a child up as a witness, she says not but any experiences?

  will she start go back once we are married?

  (i'm a non jw)

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  stevepill

  She wants me to marry her so she can be seen to be doing the right thing I suppose and because she says she wanted to move our relationship on, she has been married twice before to a witness at 20 and non witness at 27, these both lasted less than 2 years. She moved out as she felt guilty living in sin and she and my children don't get on that great, they are now 14 & 10. She was born in to Jw family.

  she seem to be running away from  everything stuck in middle but still very defensive about Jw issues.