"The reality is that you don't even need to be disfellowshipped to be shunned.
Pure gossip and innuendo spread slyly through the congregation members is enough to make them act like we are the devil himself..."
Yes...we are experiencing that. They "mark" you! They may not know any facts but just listen to others gossip. You really don't know how deep this goes until you feel it yourself. It's a real eye opener. As much as it hurts, it is well worth the freedom we feel. Free at last!!!!
I read an article written by Oprah regarding gossip . She stated that gossip is an assassination attempt by cowards (insecure people). She's right...cowards!