In fact after reconsidering some details now I can say that there is only one pedophile involved in the 7 years of abuse of my younger daughter. This only one pedophile is the so-called friend of the family.
What the pedophile has done to my younger daughter has put her during infancy in such a mental confusion, that she was not not able at that time to refuse the depraved fondles of two Indian family members (cousins). The two cousins are not pedophiles, but anyway they are both sexual perverts.
Now I know that before the pedophile abused my younger daughter he has already abused a young girl during 3 years. This young girl is my elder daughter who is 6 years older than my younger daughter. She told me about it for the first time the day before yesterday.
My elder daughter has been abused in India by the pedophile from 1998 to 2001, from her age of 8 to her age of 11, and my younger daughter has been abused by the same pedophile from 2001 to 2008, from her age of 5 to her age of 12. In 2009 we left India to establish ourselves in Europe. The pedophile was gone. But at that time both my wife and myself were sure he is a upright family friend.
My younger daughter, the one who has done a suicide attempt last monday has not been violated or sodomised, neither by the pedophile nor by her cousins. The pedophile has tried once to have a fellation from my younger daughter : he pulled her by the arm in the bathrom on the ground floor (four bathrooms in the big house) but luckily she succeeded to escape before and she took refuge in the front yard of the house and placed herself under the protection of our guard dog. The dog was hating the pedophile. Dogs can feel when something is wrong. Unfortuntely my wife and my self we could not at that time.
My elder daughter who told me for the first time the day before yesterday about the pedophile abuse she has suffered during 3 years, told me that after the pedophile abuse a cousin of our Indian family has done something with her ( not the same cousin as the two cousins above mentioned). But she does not want to give me any details, as she told me that it took her 13 years of personal praying with Jehovah, from 2002 to 2014 to feel well mentally now. Now she is married and told everything about the abuse to her husband before marriage. She told me that now she does not want anymore to speak about what se has suffered and she will not allow anybody to open an old wound now.
My younger daughter is in full mental confusion now after her suicide attempt. In the psychiatric clinic the staff is taking care so that she does no attempt suicide again. She is receiving special treatment and nobody except family members are allowed to visit her. But I am sure that she will recover but it will take time. Personally I visit her every day by bus and train.
My wife, our elder daughter, my son (first marriage) and my self, we all four hope that the cruelty of the situation we have to face day and night will not drive us insane. We all four want to remain strong, to be able to help my younger daughter in cooperation with the staff of the clinic, till she will be allowed to leave the clinic to come back home.
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