I wouldn't give them the time of day and I would ignore any and all requests to meet.
Further, I would accelerate the fade to no meetings, no turning in time, and being busy with something to do if they come to the door.
I went to a CA one day with my wife and she thought it was so important that I meet with and talk to the elders who studied with me. When that time came, I shook their hands, exchanged hellos, and promptly turned and walked away leaving them all in stunned silence.
If only she knew how I really felt about them.......if I saw either of them on fire I wouldn't walk across the the street to piss on them.