My First Post...
OMG after reading that bit of research I was...crushed.
I am an agnostic, however I have been dating a JW for about 2 months now. I respect her tremendously, and have given serious thoughts of making her a more permanent part of my life. I have even decided recently to go to a Kingdom Hall in order to more completely understand her beliefs and what may* become a major part of my life if we go down that road.
But knowing that such simple pleasures, ones that should be able to be shared between two people that love one another, or are even married, are forbidden without exception is inconceivable!
I had not thought to bring up sexuality with her for fear of sounding sex-obsessed, so I do not know for sure that she follows the JW doctrine quoted above for sure. Can any current or former JWs comment on if they themselves did/do not do such things with their wife/husband?
Also, would it be acceptable to speak to her about this subject after dating exclusively for a couple of months only?
Understand that without being too graphic here, I absolutely love "going down" and cannot imagine not doing so with the woman I love, much less a woman I were to marry.
Thanks